November 2025 Monthly Spiritual Asst Reflection – Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

November 2025

The daily Franciscan reminders of our Religious Heritage from our Franciscan Sources continues from the ASSISI COMPILATION #75-#85.  The daily quotes are taken from G.K.Chesterton and his witty and provocative sayings – food for thought

Most High, glorious God,

enlighten the darkness of my heart and give me

true faith, certain hope, and perfect charity,

sense and knowledge, Lord, that I may carry out

Your holy and true command. Amen

You are the holy Lord God Who does wonderful things.

You are strong. You are great. You are the most high.

You are the almighty king. You holy Father,

King of heaven and earth.

You are three and one, the Lord God of gods;

You are the good, all good, the highest good,

Lord God living and true.

You are love, charity; You are wisdom, You are humility,

You are patience. You are beauty, You are meekness,

You are security, You are rest,

You are gladness and joy, You are our hope,

75 – HE PREACHES IN THE PIAZZA OF PERUGIA AND FORETELLS A CIVIL WAR

1 – Once blessed Francis was preaching in the piazza at Perugia to a large crowd gathered there. All of a sudden some knights of Perugia began racing their horses around the piazza, jousting with their weapons, and thus disturbing the preaching. Although the men and women, who were intent on listening to the sermon, reprimanded them, they did not stop. Blessed Francis turned to them and, with a fiery spirit, said: “Listen and understand what the Lord is telling you through me, His servant, and don’t say, ‘This one is from Assisi!’”

– To love means loving the unlovable.

2 – Blessed Francis said this because of a long-standing enmity between the people of Assisi and those of Perugia. “The Lord has exalted and elevated you above all your neighbors,” he said. “Because of this, you must acknowledge your Creator all the more, and humble yourselves not only before almighty God but also before your neighbors. But your heart is puffed up by arrogance in your pride and might. You attack your neighbors and kill many of them.

–  You’ll never find the solution if you don’t see the problem.

3 – Because of this I tell you, unless you quickly turn to Him and compensate those whom you have injured, the Lord, who leaves nothing unavenged, to your greater punishment and disgrace, will cause you to rise up against each other. You will be torn apart by sedition and civil war, suffering by a far greater calamity than your neighbors could ever inflict on you.” – Jesus promised his disciples three things—that they would be completely fearless, absurdly happy, and in constant trouble.

4 – In his preaching blessed Francis was not silent about people’s vices, through which they publicly offended God and their neighbor. The Lord had given him such grace, that everyone who saw or heard him, small or great, feared and revered him because he had such an abundance of grace from God. As a result, no matter how much he reprimanded them, even to the point of shaming them, they were edified.

– Christianity has not been tried and found wanting; it has been found difficult and not tried.

5 – Indeed, sometimes, for this reason, and so that he would pray to the Lord more intently for them, they would turn to the Lord. A few days later, by divine consent, a scandal broke out between the knights and the people. The people drove the knights out of the city. The knights, supported by the Church, destroyed many of their fields, vineyards and trees, doing as much harm to them as they could. The people likewise destroyed the knights’ fields, vineyards and trees. And thus, that people was afflicted with greater punishment than all of their neighbors whom they had offended. In this way everything that blessed Francis predicted about them was fulfilled to the letter.

– God is like the sun; you cannot look at it, but without it you cannot look at anything else.

76 – HE MEETS A DEVOUT ABBOT, WHO FEELS THE POWER OF HIS PRAYER

6 – When blessed Francis was going through one region, he met an abbot of a monastery who had a great love and veneration for him. Dismounting from his horse, the abbot spoke to him for over an hour about the salvation of his soul. When the time came for them to part, the abbot asked blessed Francis with great devotion to pray to the Lord for his soul. “I will gladly do that,” blessed Francis told him.

–   The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.

7 –  The abbot had gone a short distance from blessed Francis when blessed Francis said to his companion: “Wait for me a little while, brother, for I want to pray for that abbot, as I promised.” And he prayed for him. It was customary for blessed Francis, whenever anyone out of devotion requested him to pray to the Lord for his soul, to offer a prayer as soon as possible, so that he would not forget afterwards.

– Do not be so open-minded that your brains fall out.

8 – The abbot was still on his way, not very far from blessed Francis, when suddenly the Lord visited him in his heart. A gentle warmth filled his face, and, for a brief moment, he was raised in ecstasy of spirit. When he came to himself, he immediately knew that blessed Francis had prayed for him. He began to praise God and to rejoice both in body and soul. From that time on, he had an even greater devotion to the holy father, considering in him the greatness of his holiness. As long as he lived he held this to be a great miracle, and he often related to the brothers and others what had happened to him.

– The whole modern world has divided itself into Conservatives and Progressives. The business of Progressives is to go on making mistakes. The business of Conservatives is to prevent mistakes from being corrected.

77 – HE OVERLOOKS HIS OWN ILLNESSES OUT OF LOVE FOR THE PASSION OF THE LORD

9 – For a long time and even until the day of his death, blessed Francis suffered ailments of the liver, spleen, and stomach. From the time when he was overseas to preach to the Sultan of Babylon and Egypt, he had a very severe eye disease, caused by the hardship and fatigue of travel, as he endured the extreme heat both in coming and going.

– A really great person is the person who makes every person feel great.

10 – Because of the fervent spirit he had from the moment of his conversion to Christ, he refused to be concerned about treatment for any of his ailments despite the request of his brothers and many others, moved by piety and compassion for him. What was bitter to his body he accepted and considered sweet on account of the sweetness and compassion that he drew daily from the humility and footprints of the Son of God. Because of the sufferings and bitter experiences of Christ, which He endured for us, he grieved and afflicted himself daily in body and soul to such a degree that he did not treat his own illnesses.

– A society is in decay, final or transitional, when common sense really becomes uncommon.

78 – HE IS SEEN WALKING AND CRYING OVER THE PASSION OF CHRIST

11 – Once, a few years after his conversion, he was walking alone one day along the road not too far from the church of Saint Mary of the Portiuncula, crying loudly and wailing as he went. As he was walking along, a spiritual man met him, someone we know and from whom we learned about this incident, who had shown him great mercy and consolation, both before he had any brothers and afterwards.

– Fairy tales do not tell children the dragons exist. Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales tell children the dragons can be killed.

12 – Moved by piety toward him, he asked him: “Brother, what’s wrong?” He thought that blessed Francis was suffering some painful illness. But he answered: “I should go through the whole world this way, without any shame, crying and bewailing the Passion of my Lord.” At this, the man began to weep and cry aloud together with him. – It is absurd for the Evolutionist to complain that it is unthinkable for an admittedly unthinkable God to make everything out of nothing and then pretend that it is more thinkable that nothing should turn itself into everything.

79 – HE REPLIES TO A BROTHER WHO ENCOURAGED HIM TO HAVE SCRIPTURE READ TO COMFORT HIM

13 – On another occasion, at the time of his eye disease, he endured such pain that one day a minister said to him: “Brother, why don’t you have one of your companions read to you from the prophets or other passages of Scripture? In that way, your spirit will rejoice in the Lord and receive great consolation.” He knew that he rejoiced greatly in the Lord whenever he heard the divine Scriptures read to him.

– When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.

14 – “Brother,” he answered him, “every day I find so much sweetness and consolation in my memory from meditating on the humility of the footprints of the Son of God that, if I were to live till the end of the world, I’d have no great need to hear or meditate on other passages of Scripture.”

– It is always the secure who are humble.

15 – He often called to mind and afterward spoke to the brothers this verse of David: “My soul refuses to be consoled.” For this reason, as he frequently told the brothers, because he had to be a model and example to all the brothers, he refused to take, not only medicines, but even necessary food in his illnesses. Because he took these things into consideration, he was severe with his body, not only when he appeared healthy, although he was always weak and ill, but also when he was ailing.

– Nothing taken for granted; everything received with gratitude; everything passed on with grace.

 80 – HE AVOIDS HYPOCRISY, CONFESSING WHAT HE HAS EATEN DURING AN ILLNESS

16 – One time when he had recovered somewhat from a very serious illness, after some consideration, it seemed to him that he had received some little delicacies during that illness, although he ate only a little, since with his many, diverse, and serious illnesses he was not able to eat.

– There’s a lot of difference between listening and hearing.

17 – One day, although still sick from a quartan fever, he had the people of Assisi called to the piazza for a sermon. When he had finished preaching, he requested that no one leave until he returned.

– A dead thing goes with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it.

18 – Together with Brother Peter of Catanio, whom he chose as the first general minister, and with a few other brothers, he entered the church of San Rufino, going into the confessio. He ordered Brother Peter to obey and not contradict whatever he wanted to say and do to himself. And Brother Peter said to him: “Brother, in what concerns you and me, I cannot, and should not want anything else except what pleases you.”

– Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly.

19 – Taking off his tunic, blessed Francis ordered Brother Peter to lead him naked with a rope tied around his neck in front of the people. He ordered another brother to take a bowl full of ashes and, mounting the place from where he had preached, to throw them and sprinkle them on his head. But moved by piety and compassion towards him, the brother did not obey him. Brother Peter got up and, weeping bitterly with the other brothers, led him out as he had been ordered to do.

– Never forget that the devil fell by force of gravity.

20 –  In this way he came back in front of the people naked, to the place where he had preached, and said: “You believe me to be a holy man, as do others who, following my example, leave the world and enter the religion and life of the brothers. But I confess to God and to you that during my illness I ate meat and broth flavored with meat.”

– He who has the faith has the fun.

21 – Almost all the people began to weep out of piety and compassion for him, especially since it was wintertime and was very cold and he had not yet recovered from the quartan fever. They struck their breasts, accusing themselves. “This holy man,” they said, “whose life we know, accuses himself with such shame over a just and manifest necessity.

– Science must not impose any philosophy, any more than the telephone must tell us what to say.

22 – Yet because of excessive abstinence and the severity with which he treats his body from the moment of his conversion to Christ, we see him living in flesh that is almost dead. What shall we do, wretches that we are, we who all our life have lived, and wish to live, according to the will and desires of the flesh?” 

– The Bible tells us to love our neighbors, and also to love our enemies; probably because they are generally the same people.

81 – HE ABHORS HYPOCRISY BOTH IN EATING AND IN CLOTHING

23 – Likewise, at another time, he was staying in a hermitage for the Lent of Saint Martin. Because of his illness, the brothers cooked the food they gave him to eat in lard, because oil was very bad for him in his illnesses. When the forty days had ended and he was preaching to a large crowd of people, gathered not far from that hermitage, in the opening words of his sermon he told them: “You came to me with great devotion and believe me to be a holy man. But I confess to God and to you that during this Lent in that hermitage, I have eaten food flavored with lard.” 

– If there were no God, there would be no atheists

24 – Indeed, if the brothers or the friends of the brothers, with whom he would eat, occasionally prepared a special dish for him because of his illnesses or the obvious need of his body, it frequently happened that he would immediately tell this to the brothers or lay people who did not know about it, whether inside the house or outside, saying publicly: “I ate such and such foods.” He did not wish to conceal from people what was known to God.

– The riddles of God are more satisfying than the solutions of man

25 – Moreover, if his soul were ever tempted to vainglory, pride, or any vice, no matter where he was, or in whose presence, whether they be religious or lay, he would immediately and openly confess it to them, without concealing anything. That is why he told his companions one day: “I want to live before God, in hermitages and other places where I stay, just as the people see and know me. If they believe that I am a holy man and I do not lead a life becoming a holy man, I would be a hypocrite.” 

 –  Just going to church doesn’t make you a Christian any more than standing in your garage makes you a car.

26 – Thus one time in winter, one of the companions, who was his guardian, acquired a piece of fox fur because of the illness of the spleen and the cold of his stomach. He asked him to permit him to have it sewn under his tunic next to his stomach and spleen, especially because it was then extremely cold. But from the moment he began to serve Christ until the day of his death, in any weather, he did not want to wear or have anything but a single patched tunic.

– Religion is the thing that makes the ordinary man feel extraordinary; it is an equally important truth that religion is the thing that makes the extraordinary man feel ordinary.

27 – Blessed Francis answered him: “If you want me to wear that fur under the tunic, allow me to sew a piece of the fur on the outside of my tunic as an indication to people that I have a piece of fur underneath.” And this is what he had done; and, although it was a necessity on account of his illnesses, he did not wear it long.

– One of the chief uses of religion is that it makes us remember our coming from darkness, the simple fact that we are created.

81 – HE ACCUSES HIMSELF OF VAINGLORY, NOT WISHING TO BE A HYPOCRITE

28 – Another time, he was going through the city of Assisi and many people went with him. A poor old woman asked him for alms for the love of God and he immediately gave her the mantle he had on his back. And, at once, he confessed before everyone that on that account he felt vainglory.

– Neither reason nor faith will ever die; for men would die if deprived of either

29 – We who were with him saw and heard many other examples similar to these but we cannot tell them because it would take too long to write or recount them. Blessed Francis’s highest and principal concern was that he should not be a hypocrite before God.

– The first effect of not believing in God is that you lose your common sense.

30 – Although he needed special food for his body because of his infirmity, nevertheless, he thought that he must always offer good example to the brothers and to others, so that he might take away from them any reason for complaining and bad example. He preferred to endure bodily needs patiently and willingly, and he did endure them until the day of his death, rather than satisfy himself, even though he could have done so according to God and good example.

– Christendom has had a series of revolutions and in each one of them Christianity has died. Christianity has died many times and risen again; for it had a God who knew the way out of the grave.

  

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

THANK YOU, GOD, FOR BEING YOU AND FOR CREATING EACH ONE OF US

October 2025 Monthly Spiritual Assistant Reflection – Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website:  skdsfo    email: pppgusa@gmail.com

 

October 2025

Assisi Compilation #72 – #74

72 – HE KNOWS THE THOUGHTS OF A CRITICAL BROTHER 

1 – As they considered his holiness, the brothers were amazed and praised the Lord who had provided for his servant, especially because it was winter and such things were not available in that area.

Unless there is within us what is above us, we shall soon yield to what is around us.

2 – Blessed Francis was travelling with a spiritual brother from Assisi who came from a great and powerful family. Because he was weak and ill, blessed Francis rode on a donkey. Feeling tired from walking, that brother began to think: “His parents were never at the same level as mine, and here he is riding, while I’m worn out, walking behind him, prodding the beast.”

Preach to the poor with your hands before you preach to them with your lips.

3 – While he was thinking this, blessed Francis got off the donkey and said to him: “No, brother, it’s not right or proper for me to ride while you go on foot, for in the world you were nobler and more influential than I.” The brother, stunned and ashamed, fell down at his feet and, in tears, confessed his thought and then said his penance.

The chief exercise of prayer is to speak to God and to hear God speak to you in the depths of your heart.

4 – He was greatly amazed at his holiness, for he immediately knew his thought. In fact, when the brothers petitioned the Lord Pope Gregory and the cardinals in Assisi to canonize blessed Francis, he testified to this before the Lord Pope and the cardinals.

My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.

73 – HE BLESSES A BROTHER AT GRECCIO, KNOWING HIS WISH AT A DISTANCE

5 – A brother, a spiritual man and a friend of God, was living in the lace of the brothers of Rieti. One day he got up and came with great devotion to the hermitage of the brothers of Greccio, where blessed Francis was then staying, out of a desire to see him and receive his blessing.

Let me be a little kinder and blinder to the faults of those around you.

6 – Blessed Francis had already eaten and had returned to the cell where he prayed and rested. Because it was Lent he did not leave the cell except at mealtime and returned to the cell immediately afterward. The brother did not find him and grew very sad, attributing this to his sins, especially because he had to return that day to his own place.

Pride has a way of concealing my faults from myself.

7 – The companions of blessed Francis consoled him, and he had not gone more than a stone’s throw away from the place when, by the will of the Lord, blessed Francis came out of his cell and called one of his companions, who was travelling with him as far as Fonte del Lago. He said to him: “Tell that brother to look back toward me.”

Today’s opportunities erase yesterday’s failures.

8 – And when he turned his face to blessed Francis, he made the sign of the cross and blessed him. That brother, rejoicing both in body and spirit, praised the Lord who fulfilled his desire. His consolation was so much the greater because he saw that it was the will of God that the saint bless him without being asked by him or others.

How much is there left in you after you have lost everything outside of you?  This is the test.

9 – The companions of blessed Francis, and the other brothers of the place, were amazed, considering it a great miracle since no one had told blessed Francis about the arrival of that brother.

When we learn to see the invisible, the we will learn to do the impossible.

10 –  And neither the companions of blessed Francis, nor any other brother would have dared approach him unless he had called them. This was true not only there but everywhere blessed Francis stayed to pray, for he wanted to remain so removed, that no one would go to him without being called.

O God, help us to be masters of ourselves that we may be servants of others.

74 – HE CORRECTS THE BROTHERS OF GRECCIO FOR AN ELEGANT TABLE-SETTING; THE VISIT OF CARDINAL HUGOLINO TO THE PORTIUNCULA; PRAISE FOR THE PEOPLE OF GRECCIO

11 – One day a minister of the brothers came to blessed Francis who was then staying in that same place, in order to celebrate the feast of Christmas with him.

Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, and a touch that never hurts.

12 – It happened that the brothers of that place on Christmas day itself prepared the table elaborately because of that minister, covering it with lovely white tablecloths which they obtained for the occasion, and vessels of glass for drinking.  Blessed Francis came down from the cell to eat, and when he saw the table set on a dais and finely prepared, he went secretly and took the hat of a poor man who had arrived there that very day, and the staff he carried in his hand. He called one of his companions in a whisper and went outside the door of the hermitage, unnoticed by the other brothers of the house.

Treat a child as though he already is the person he’s capable of becoming.

13 – Meanwhile the brothers came to the table, especially because it was sometimes the custom of the holy father that, if he did not arrive immediately at mealtime, and the brothers wanted to eat, he wanted them to go to the table and eat. His companion closed the door, remaining next to it on the inside.

Trust to the known God the unknown future.

14 – Blessed Francis knocked on the door and he immediately opened it for him. He entered with his hat on his back and with staff in hand, like a pilgrim. When he came to the door of the house where the brothers were eating, he called out to the brothers like a poor man: “For the love of the Lord God, give alms to this poor, sick pilgrim.”

 Prayer is an expression of who we are. We are a living incompleteness that calls for fulfillment.

15 – That minister and the other brothers recognized him at once. The minister told him: “Brother, we are also poor, and because we are so many, we need these alms we are eating. But, for the love of that Lord you invoked, come into the house, and we will give you some of the alms which the Lord has given us.”

The hardest thing to hide is something that is not there.

16 – When he came in and stood in front of the brothers’ table, the minister gave him the bowl from which he was eating and some bread. Taking it, he sat down on the floor beside the fire, facing the brothers who sat at the elevated table. Sighing he said to the brothers: “When I saw the table finely and elaborately prepared, I considered that this was not a table of poor religious, who go door-to-door each day.

We cannot do great things, only small things with great love.

17 – For more than other religious, we should follow the example of poverty and humility in all things, because we have been called to this and have professed this before God and people. So, now it seems to me I’m seated like a brother.”

As the purse is emptied the heart is filled.

18 – The brothers were ashamed at this, considering that blessed Francis was speaking the truth. Some of them began to weep loudly, considering how he was seated on the ground, wishing to correct them in such a holy and simple way. He told the brothers that they have a humble and decent table so as to edify secular people. And if the brothers invite a poor person, he should sit with them, and not have the poor man sit on the ground and have the brothers sit on high.

Treat people as though they were what they ought to be, and you will help them become what they are capable of being.

19 – When the Lord Pope Gregory was the bishop of Ostia, he came to the place of the brothers at Saint Mary of the Portiuncula, with many knights, monks, and other clerics. He entered the house of the brothers to see their dormitory and, when he saw that the brothers lay on the ground, with nothing underneath except a little straw, no pillows, and some poor coverings, torn and thread bare, he began to weep profusely before them all. “Look where the brothers sleep,” he said.

Holy persons serve this world by reflecting in it the light of another.

20 – “But we, wretched creatures, enjoy such a surplus. What will become of us?” Both he and the others were greatly edified. He did not see a table there because the brothers ate on the ground. From the very beginning, that place, once it was built, was visited by the brothers of the entire religion more than any other place, for everyone who entered religion was invested there. No matter whether they were few or many, the brothers always used to eat on the ground.

Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got.

21 – As long as the holy father lived, after his example and will, the brothers who lived there used to sit on the ground to eat.  For blessed Francis found the hermitage of the brothers at Greccio to be becoming and poor and the inhabitants, although poor and simple, were more pleasing to him than those of the rest of the region.

The liar’s punishment is not that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else.

22 – For this reason, he rested and stayed there, especially because there was a poor cell, very isolated, in which the holy father would stay.

What not let Jesus take over my life? He can do more with it than I can.

23 – Many of these people, with the grace of God, entered religion because of his example and preaching and that of his brothers. Many women preserved their virginity and, remaining in their own homes, dressed in the clothing of religion.

Without love and compassion for others, our own apparent love for Christ is fiction.

24 – And although each remained in her own home, each of them lived the common life decently, afflicting her body with fasting and prayer. Thus, it seemed to the people and to the brothers that their manner of living was not among seculars and their relatives, but among holy and religious people who had served the Lord a long time, despite their youthful age and simplicity.

The thing to try when all else fails is again.

25 – That is why, with joy, blessed Francis often said to the brothers about the men and women of this town: “Even in a large city not as many people have been converted to penance as in Greccio, which is only a small town.”

The one who does stay in his littleness loses his greatness.

26 – For frequently, when the brothers of that place used to praise the Lord in the evening, as the brothers at that time were accustomed to do in many places, the people of that town, both the great and the small, would come outside. Standing on the road in front of the town, they would respond to the brothers in a loud voice: “Praised be the Lord God!”

What is it about human nature that makes it easier to break a commandment than a habit?

27 – Even children, who could not yet speak, when they saw the brothers, would praise the Lord as best they could.  In those times they endured an awful scourge which they had suffered for many years. Huge wolves would eat people, and every year hailstorms would destroy their fields and vineyards.

Pray, and then start answering your prayer.

28 – One day when blessed Francis was preaching, he said to them: “To the praise and honor of God, I tell you that, if each one of you turns away from sin, and turns to God with whole heart, firm resolve, and will to persevere, I trust in the Lord Jesus Christ that, in His mercy, He will soon deliver you from the scourge of the wolves and of the hail from which, for so long a time, you have been suffering. He will make you grow and increase in both spiritual and temporal things. I also tell you if you return to your vomit, this scourge and pestilence will return, and more and worse disasters will afflict you.”

The only person worth envying is the person that doesn’t envy.

29 – Through divine providence and the merits of the holy father, it happened that, from that hour and time, this scourge ceased. Moreover, it was a great miracle when hail came down and destroyed their neighbors’ fields, but did not touch their fields that were next to them.

No one needs to be loved than the one who doesn’t deserve it.

30 – And for sixteen to twenty years, they began to increase and abound in spiritual and temporal things. Afterwards, however, they began to grow fat and proud, to hate each other, to strike one another with swords even to the point of death, to kill animals secretly, stealing and pillaging at night, and to commit many other evils. When the Lord saw that their works were evil and that they did not observe what was told them by His servant, blessed Francis, His anger flared up and He withdrew the hand of His mercy from them.

The person with humility never has to be shown his place; he is always in it.

31 – The scourge of wolves and hail returned, as the holy father had said, and many other even worse calamities befell them. The town was entirely burned and, after losing everything they had, they escaped only with their lives. Then the brothers and others who had heard what blessed Francis said, how he predicted prosperity and adversity for them, were amazed at his holiness, seeing all his words fulfilled to the letter.

It wasn’t the nails that held Jesus on the cross but his love for us.

Peace and Blessings

Francis A. Sariego, O.F.M. Cap.

Regional Spiritual Assistant

September 2025-Monthly Spiritual Assistant Reflection from Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

 tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      email:  skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

September 2025

 

I bend my knee to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ

so that, through the prayers and merits of the

holy and glorious Virgin Mary, His Mother,

and of our most blessed father Francis and of all the saints,

the Lord Himself, Who has given a good beginning,

may give increase and may also give final perseverance.

Amen.

(The Testament of St. Clare of Assisi)

Daily excerpts from Assisi Compilation #67 – # 71 – Daily quote from various sources

 

67 – HIS VISITORS TRAMPLE A PRIEST’S VINEYARD IN RIETI AND IT IS MIRACULOUSLY RESTORED

1 – Because of the disease of his eyes, blessed Francis at that time was staying in the church of San Fabiano near the same city, where there was a poor secular priest. At that time the Lord Pope Honorius and other cardinals were in the same city.  Many of the cardinals and other great clerics, because of the reverence and devotion they had for the holy father, used to visit him almost every day.

There’s a hole in every human heart that only God can fill.

2 – That church had a small vineyard next to the house where blessed Francis was staying. There was one door to the house through which nearly all those who visited him passed into the vineyard, especially because the grapes were ripe at that time, and the place was pleasant for resting.

Fight all error, but do it with good humor, patience, kindness and love.

3 – And it came about that for that reason almost the entire vineyard was ruined. For some picked the grapes and ate them there, while others picked them and carried them off, and still others trampled them underfoot. The priest began to be offended and upset. “I lost my vintage for this year!” he said. “Even though it’s small, I got enough wine from it to take care of my needs!”

Harshness will damage your own soul and spoil the best cause.

4 – When blessed Francis heard of this, he had him called and said to him: “Do not be disturbed or offended any longer. We can’t do anything about it. But trust in the Lord, because for me, His little servant, He can restore your loss. But, tell me, how many measures of wine did you get when your vineyard was at its best?” – We are like God when we forgive.

5 – “Thirteen measures, father,” the priest responded. “Don’t be sad over this anymore,” blessed Francis told him, “and don’t say anything offensive to anyone because of it, or argue with anyone about it. Trust the Lord and my words, and if you get less than twenty measures of wine, I will make it up to you.”

It is never the wrong time to do the right thing.

6 – The priest calmed down and kept quiet. And it happened by divine dispensation that he obtained twenty measures and no less, just as blessed Francis had told him.

How wonderful it would be if we spent as much energy living our religion as we do arguing about it.

7 – Those who heard about it, as well as the priest himself, were amazed. They considered it a great miracle due to the merits of blessed Francis, especially because not only was it devastated, but even if it had been full of grapes and no one had taken any, it still seemed impossible to the priest and the others to get twenty measures of wine from it.

No gift is ours till we have thanked the giver.

8 – We who were with him bear witness that whenever he used to say: “This is the way it is . . . or this is the way it will be …”, it always happened as he said. We have seen many of these fulfilled not only while he was alive but also after his death.

People may doubt what you say but they will believe what you do.

68 – AT FONTECOLOMBO THE DOCTOR HAS DINNER WITH THE BROTHERS AND THE LORD PROVIDES THE FOOD

9 – At that same time, blessed Francis stayed in the hermitage of the brothers at Fonte Colombo near Rieti because of the disease of his eyes. One day the eye doctor of that city a visited him and stayed with him for some hours, as he often used to do.

Carry the cross patiently, and in the end it will carry you.

10 – When he was ready to leave, blessed Francis said to one of his companions: “Go and give the doctor a good meal.” “Father,” his companion answered, “we’re ashamed to say that, because we’re so poor now we’d be ashamed to invite him and give him anything to eat.”

Kindness is loving people more than they deserve.

11 – Blessed Francis told his companions: “O you of little faith! Don’t make me tell you again!” The doctor said to blessed Francis and his companions: “Brother, it is because the brothers are so poor that I am happy to eat with them.”

Life can be understood backward, but it must be understood forward.

12 – The doctor was very rich and, although blessed Francis and his companions had often invited him, he had refused to eat there. The brothers went and set the table. With embarrassment, they placed the little bread and wine they had as well as the few greens they had prepared for themselves.

Lighthouses blow no horns; they only shine.

13 – When they had sat down at the table and eaten a bit, there was a knock on the door of the hermitage. One of the brothers rose, went and opened the door. And there was a woman with a large basket filled with beautiful bread, fish, crab cakes, honey, and freshly-picked grapes, which had been sent to brother Francis by a lady of a town about seven miles away from the hermitage.

In prayer it is better to have a heart without words than words without a heart.

14 – After they saw this and considered the holiness of blessed Francis, the brothers and the doctor were greatly amazed. “My brothers,” the doctor told them, “neither you nor we sufficiently recognize the holiness of this saint.”

There I no saint without a past and no sinner without a future.

69 – HE TELLS A LADY OF LIMISIANO THAT HER HUSBAND WILL BE CONVERTED

15 – One time blessed Francis was going to “Le Celle” of Cortona and was following the road that passes at the foot of a fortified town called Limisiano, near the place of the brothers at Pregio. A noble woman of the town happened to come with great haste to speak to blessed Francis.

The best use of life is to spend it for something that outlasts it.

16 – When one of his companions saw this woman, extremely tired, hurrying after them, he ran to tell blessed Francis. “Father, for the love of God, let us wait for the lady who is following us, since she is quite exhausted from her desire to speak with us.” Blessed Francis, as a man full of charity and piety, waited for her. When he saw her exhausted and coming to him with great fervor and devotion, he said to her: “What is it, please, my lady?”

To give witness of your faith is like perfume. If it’s really good, you won’t have to advertise it.

17 – The lady answered: “Father, please, bless me.” Blessed Francis asked her: “Are you bound to a man or single?”

“Father,” she said, “for a long time the Lord has given me the will to serve him. I had and still have a strong desire to have my soul. But I have a husband so cruel that he is an antagonist to me and to himself in the service of Christ. Because of this, my soul is tormented to death with great sorrow and anguish.”

Everything that happens in this world happens at the time God chooses.

18 – Blessed Francis was moved by piety for her, considering the burning spirit she had, and especially because she was a young girl and was delicate according to the flesh. He blessed her and said to her, “Go, and you will find your husband at home. Tell him for me that for the love of the Lord who endured the passion of the cross to save us, I beg both you and him to save your souls in your own home.”

Jesus impacted the lives of his followers more powerfully after his death than before it.

19 – When she returned and entered the house, she found her husband at home, just as blessed Francis had told her. Her husband said to her: “Where are you coming from?” “I’m coming from seeing blessed Francis who blessed me,” she answered, “and his words have consoled and gladdened my soul in the Lord. Moreover, he told me to tell you on his behalf and to beg you that we should both save our souls in our own home.”

People don’t really pay much attention to what we say about our religion, because they’d rather see what we do about it.

20 – After she said this, the grace of God immediately came down on him, through the merits of blessed Francis. Suddenly changed anew by the Lord, he answered her with great kindness and meekness: “My lady, from now on, as it will please you, let us serve Christ and save our souls, as blessed Francis said.”

Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of himself.

21 – His wife told him: “My lord, it seems to me that it would be good for us to live in chastity, because it is very pleasing to the Lord and is a virtue with great reward.”

A leader is someone who knows, goes, and shows the way.

22 – “Lady,” her husband answered, “what pleases you, pleases me. For in this, as in other good deeds, I want to unite my will to yours.” And from then on, for many years, they lived in chastity, giving many alms to the brothers and to other poor people.

True spiritual vision is the ability to seed the invisible.

23 – Not only seculars, but also religious marveled at their holiness, especially since this man, who once was very worldly, so quickly became spiritual.

Criticism is like dynamite. It has its place, but it should be handled only by experts.

24 – Persevering till the end in all these things and other deeds, both of them died within a few days of each other. Because of the fragrance of their good life, there was great mourning over these two who had given all the time of their lives to praising and blessing the Lord who had given them graces, sincerity, and harmony during life in His service. Even in death they were not separated, because one died right after the other. Their memory, like that of the saints, is recalled to this day by those who knew them.

If you cannot find happiness along the way, don’t assume you will find it at the end of the road.

70 – HE REFUSES ENTRANCE TO THE ORDER TO A YOUNG NOBLEMAN FROM LUCCA

25 – At a time when no one was received into the life of the brothers without the permission of blessed Francis, the son of a nobleman of this world from Lucca, together with others who wished to enter the religion, came to see blessed Francis. At the time he was sick and was staying at the palace of the bishop of Assisi. When the brothers presented them to blessed Francis, the son of the nobleman bowed before blessed Francis and began to cry aloud, begging to be received.

Who has health has hope; who has hope has everything.

26 – Looking at him, Blessed Francis said: “O wretched and fleshly man! Why are you lying to the Holy Spirit and to me? You are crying in the flesh and not in the spirit!” After he said these things, his relatives suddenly arrived outside the palace on horseback, wanting to seize him and take him back home.

They stand best who kneel most.

27 – When he heard the clatter of horses, he looked out a window of the palace, and saw his relatives. He immediately got up, and went outside to them. He returned to the world with them, just as blessed Francis had known through the Holy Spirit. The brothers, and others who were there, marveled, magnified, and praised God in his saint.

Who loses wealth loses much, but who loses the spirit loses everything.

71 – HE WANTS TO EAT SOME FISH AND IT IS PROVIDED IN A WONDERFUL WAY

28 – Once when he was very sick and staying in the same palace, the brothers begged and encouraged him to eat. But he answered them: “My brothers, I don’t have the wish to eat; but if I had a bit of that fish called squalo, perhaps I would eat some.”

When we do what we can, God will do what we can’t.

29 – Once he said this, someone came carrying a basket in which there were three large and well-prepared squali and crabcakes. The holy father gladly ate these. These were sent to him by Brother Gerardo, the minister at Rieti. As they considered his holiness, the brothers were amazed and praised the Lord who had provided for his servant, especially because it was winter and such things were not available in that area.

Those who stand for nothing fall for everything.

72 – HE KNOWS THE THOUGHTS OF A CRITICAL BROTHER

30 – Once blessed Francis was travelling with a spiritual brother from Assisi who came from a great and powerful family. Because he was weak and ill, blessed Francis rode on a donkey. Feeling tired from walking, that brother began to think to himself: “His parents were never at the same level as mine, and here he is riding, while I’m worn out, walking behind him, prodding the beast.” While he was thinking this, blessed Francis got off the donkey and said to him: “No, brother, it’s not right or proper for me to ride while you go on foot, for in the world you were nobler and more influential than I.” The brother, stunned and ashamed, fell down at his feet and, in tears, confessed his thought and then said his penance. He was greatly amazed at his holiness, for he immediately knew his thought. In fact, when the brothers petitioned the Lord Pope Gregory and the cardinals in Assisi to canonize blessed Francis, he testified to this before the Lord Pope and the cardinals.

Blessed is the influence of one true, loving human soul on another.

Peace and Blessings

Fr. Francis A. Sariego, OFM Cap

Regional Spiritual Assistant

August 2025 Monthly Spiritual Asst Reflection – Fr Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

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August 2025

 

I behold the Lord.

I see His outstretched hands.

I see the blood from His wounds.

I see the love in the eyes of Jesus.

I see His gracious acceptance of me.

Jesus has come out of the tomb –

He still has the scars, but now they are glorious, with the glory of heaven.

Still looking at the Lord, I reach out and touch Him.

I hold the Lord – and I am held in His love.

Love enfolds.

It is no longer I that live, but Christ that lives in me.

I am secure in the Lord.

I can look out, now, through the Lord’s eyes.

I can see the world as He created it, in His mercy,

I can see my sisters and brothers with His love,

and I can worship the Father through the eyes of the Son

in the Love of the Holy Spirit.

(Prayers of St Clare of Assisi)

 

Excerpts from Franciscan Sources taken from ASSISI COMPILATION, #62-#66

62 – HE REJECTS A MAN WHO GAVE AWAY HIS POSSESSIONS TO HIS RELATIVES

1 – Once blessed Francis went preaching throughout the province of the Marches. While he was preaching one day to the people of one village, a man happened to come to him. “Brother,” he said to him, “I want to leave the world and enter your religion.” Blessed Francis told him: “Brother, if you wish to enter the religion of the brothers, you must first distribute all your goods to the poor, according to the counsel of the holy Gospel, and then renounce your will in all things.”

Endurance is the ability to bear a hard thing and to turn it into glory.

2 – When he heard these things, the man left hurriedly, and, led by the love of the flesh, he distributed all his goods to his relatives. He returned to blessed Francis, and told him: “Brother, I have expropriated myself of all my goods.” Blessed Francis asked him: ”How did you do it?” The man told him: “Brother, I gave all my goods to some of my relatives who needed them.”

Little love, little trust.

3 – Through the Holy Spirit, blessed Francis immediately knew that the man was of the flesh, and told him: “Go on your way, Brother Fly, because you have distributed your goods to your relatives, and you want to live on alms among the brothers.” Refusing to distribute his goods to other poor people, he immediately went on his way.

Jesus said, ‘I am the way’.

63 – HE IS FREED FROM A LONG-LASTING TEMPTATION

4 – At that time, while blessed Francis was staying in that same place of Saint Mary, it happened that a very serious temptation of the spirit was inflicted on him for the benefit of his soul. He was tormented inside and out, in body and spirit, so much that he sometimes withdrew from the close company of the brothers, especially since he could not be his usual cheerful self because of that temptation.

Two men looked out through prison bars. One saw mud, the other saw stars.

5 – He inflicted upon himself not only abstinence from food, but also from talking. He would often go to pray in the woods near the church, so that he could better express his pain and could more abundantly pour out his tears before the Lord, so that the Lord who is able to do all things, would be kind enough to send him a remedy from heaven for this great trial.

I just want to do God’s will.

6 – He was troubled by this temptation day and night for more than two years. One day while he was praying in the church of Saint Mary, he happened to hear in spirit that saying of the holy Gospel: “If you have faith like a mustard seed, and you tell that mountain to move from its place and move to another place, it will happen.

Great and mighty is our Lord, His wisdom cannot be measured.

7 – Saint Francis replied: “What is that mountain?” He was told: “That mountain is your temptation.” “In that case, Lord,” said blessed Francis, “be it done to me as you have said.” Immediately he was freed in such a way that it seemed to him that he never had that temptation.

God calls where your deep gladness meets the world’s deep hunger.

64 – HE CRITICIZES BROTHER JAMES THE SIMPLE AND AS A PENANCE EATS WITH A LEPER 

8 – Once when blessed Francis had returned to Saint Mary of the Portiuncula, he found there Brother James the Simple with a leper covered with sores who had come there that day. The holy father had entrusted this leper to him, and especially all the other lepers who had severe sores. For in those days, the brothers stayed in the leper hospitals. That Brother James was like the doctor for those with severe sores, and he gladly touched, changed, and treated their wounds.

Repentance is sorrow converted into action toward a new and better life.

9 – As if reproving Brother James, blessed Francis told him: “You should not take our Christian brothers about in this way since it is not right for you or for them.” Blessed Francis used to call lepers“ Christian brothers.”

A mother’s heart is the child’s schoolroom.

10 – Although he was pleased that Brother James helped and served them, the holy father said this because he did not want him to take those with severe sores outside the hospital. This was especially because Brother James was very simple, and he often went with a leper to the church of Saint Mary, and especially because people usually abhorred lepers who had severe sores.

Reverence for life leads us into a spiritual relationship with the world.

11 – After he said these things, blessed Francis immediately reproached himself, and he told his fault to Brother Peter of Catanio, who was then general minister, especially because blessed Francis believed that in reproving Brother James he had shamed the leper.

People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Love them anyway.

12 – And because of this he told his fault, to make amends to God and to the leper. Blessed Francis said to Brother Peter: “I tell you to confirm for me the penance I have chosen to do for this and do not oppose me in any way.” Brother Peter told him: “Brother, do as you please.”

Faith knows the way. Hope points the way. Love is the way.

13 – Brother Peter so venerated and feared blessed Francis and was so obedient to him, that he would not presume to change his obedience, although then, and many other times, it hurt him inside and out. Blessed Francis said: “Let this be my penance: I will eat together with my Christian brother from the same dish.”

What is upsetting with one who lies is that that person can longer be believed.

14 – While blessed Francis was sitting at the table with the leper and other brothers, a bowl was placed between the two of them. The leper was completely covered with sores and ulcerated, and especially the fingers with which he was eating were deformed and bloody, so that whenever he put them in the bowl, blood dripped into it. Brother Peter and the other brothers saw this, grew very sad, but did not dare say anything out of fear of the holy father. The one who wrote this, saw it and bore witness to it.

Confession of evil works is the beginning of good works.

65 – THE VISION OF BROTHER PACIFICO IN A CHURCH AT BOVARA 

15 – At one time blessed Francis was going through the valley of Spoleto together with Brother Pacifico, from the Marches of Ancona, who in the world had been known as “King of Verses,” a nobleman and courtly master of singers. They stayed in the lepers’ hospital at Trevi.

The greatest truths are the simplest, and so are the greatest people.

16 – Blessed Francis said to Brother Pacifico: “Let’s go to the church of Saint Peter in Bovara, because I wish to stay there tonight.” That church was not too far from the hospital, and no one was staying there, because at that time the town of Trevi had been destroyed, so that no one lived in the town or the village.

– If you judge people you have no time to love them.

17 – On the way there, blessed Francis said to Brother Pacifico: “Go back to the hospital because I would like to remain here alone tonight. Come back to me at dawn tomorrow.” So blessed Francis remained there by himself. After he said compline and other prayers, he wanted to rest and sleep, but could not do so, and his soul grew afraid and he began to feel diabolical suggestions.

Every child comes with the message that God is not discouraged with us.

18 – He immediately got up, went outside the house, signed himself, and said: “On behalf of Almighty God, I tell you, demons, do whatever the Lord Jesus Christ has permitted you, to harm my body. I am prepared to endure anything. Therefore, you will be avenging me on my opponent and enemy.”Those suggestions stopped immediately and, when he returned to the place where he had been lying, he rested and slept peacefully.

Kindness is the music of life.

19 – When morning came Brother Pacifico returned to him. Blessed Francis was standing in prayer in front of the altar inside the choir. Brother Pacifico stood and waited for him outside the choir, in front of the crucifix, praying to the Lord at the same time. As he began to pray, Brother Pacifico was taken up into an ecstasy, whether in the body or out of the body, God knows, and he saw many thrones in heaven, one of them higher than the others, glorious, resplendent adorned with every precious stone.

Even in the most difficult people there is a child asleep in their hearts waiting to be awakened.

20 – As he admired its beauty, he began to wonder what kind of throne it was and whose it might be. All at once he heard a voice telling him: “This was Lucifer’s throne and blessed Francis will sit on it in his place.”

When the soul has laid down its faults at the feet of God, it feels as though it had wings.

21 – As he came back to himself, blessed Francis came out to him. He immediately prostrated himself in the form of a cross at the feet of blessed Francis. Because of the vision he saw about him, he considered blessed Francis as if he were already in heaven, and said to him: “Father, forgive me my sins, and ask the Lord to forgive me and have mercy on me.”

To have an increase of Jesus you must have a decrease in self.

22 – Extending his hand, blessed Francis lifted him up, and he realized that he had seen something in prayer. He appeared almost totally changed and spoke to blessed Francis not as if he were living in the flesh, but as if he were already reigning in heaven. Afterwards, as if on another point, because he was unwilling to speak about the vision to blessed Francis, Brother Pacifico asked him: “What do you think of yourself, brother?”

You are not responsible for your heritage but you are responsible for your future.

23 – Blessed Francis responded: “It seems to be that I am a greater sinner than anyone in this world.”

The world is round and the place that seems like the end may be the beginning.

24 – And immediately Brother Pacifico was told this in his heart: “In this you can know that the vision you saw is true. For as Lucifer was cast down from that throne because of his pride, so blessed Francis will merit to be exalted and to sit on it because of his humility.”

Positive anything is better than negative nothing.

66 – HE HEARS THE MUSIC OF A LUTE IN THE HOUSE OF TEOBALDO SARACENO IN RIETI

25 – Once, when blessed Francis was in Rieti because of the disease of his eyes, he was staying for a few days in a room of Teobaldo Saraceno. One day he said to one of his companions, who while in the world knew how to play a lute: “Brother, the children of this world do not understand divine things. Contrary to the will of God, they use instruments such as lutes, the ten-stringed harps, and other instruments, for the sake of vanity and sin, which in times past were used by holy people to praise God and offer consolation to souls.

Half the confusion in the world comes from not knowing how little we need.

26 – Therefore, I would like you to obtain secretly from some upright person a lute on which you could play for me a decent song and, with it, we will say the words and praises of the Lord, especially because my body is tormented with disease and pain. So I wish by this means to change that pain of my body to joy and consolation of spirit.”

God in heaven let me feel my nothingness in order to feel the more powerfully the greatness of your goodness.

27 – For, during his illness, blessed Francis composed some Praises of the Lord which he had his companions recite sometimes for the praise of God, the consolation of his spirit, and also for the edification of his neighbor. “Father,” the brother answered him, “I would be embarrassed to get one, especially because the people of this city know that I played the lute when I was out in the world. I fear they will suspect me of being tempted to play the lute again.”

What I have will belong to another one day, but what I am will be mine for all eternity.

28 – Blessed Francis told him: “Then, brother, let’s let it go.”  The following night, around midnight, blessed Francis was keeping vigil. And behold, around the house where he was staying he heard the sound of a lute playing a melody more beautiful and delightful than he had ever heard in his life. The one playing it would go some distance away so that he could barely be heard, and then returned, but was always playing. And he did this for over an hour.

Why is it that so many church goers say “Our Father” on Sunday, and go around the rest of the week like orphans?

29 – Blessed Francis, considering that it was the work of God and no to any human being, was overjoyed, and with an exultant heart with deep feeling he praised the Lord who was so kind as to console him with such a great consolation.

Look for the best in others and you will find the best in yourself.

30 – When he arose in the morning he said to his companion: “My brother, I asked you for something and you did not grant it. But the Lord, who consoles His friends in their sufferings, was kind enough to console me last night.” He then told him everything that had happened.

The little things?  The little moments? They aren’t little!

31 – The brothers were amazed and considered this a great miracle. And they knew that it was truly a work of God for the consolation of blessed Francis, especially since, by a decree of the podestà, no one dared go about the city, either at midnight or even after the third ringing of the bells. And because, as blessed Francis said, it came and went in silence, without a word or a noise from its mouth, for more than an hour to console his spirit.

Those who would transform the world, must first transform themselves.

 

July 2025 Monthly Spiritual Asst Reflection – Fr Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

 

July 2025

O loving one, bear in mind your poor children for whom, without You,

their one and only consolation, there is little comfort. They still tearfully cry out to You:

O Father, place before Jesus Christ, Son of the Most High Father, His sacred stigmata;

and show Him the signs of the cross on Your hands, feet, and side,

that He may mercifully bare His own wounds to the Father,

and because of this the Father will ever show us in our anguish His tenderness.

Amen.

 

(Prayer to St. Francis from the End of the Second Book of the Life of St. Francis by Bl. Thomas of Celano)

Excerpts from Franciscan Sources – Assisi Compilation #58 – #61

 

58 – HIS WISHES ABOUT HOW THE BROTHERS’ PLACES SHOULD BE BUILT

1 – Once when he was in Siena for treatment of the disease of his eyes, he was staying in a cell, where after his death a chapel was built out of reverence for him. Lord Bonaventure, who had donated to the brothers the land where the brothers’ place had been built, said to him: “What do you think of this place?”

We discover the treasure of Gospel poverty among the poor.

2 – Blessed Francis answered him: “Do you want me to tell you how the places of the brothers should be built?” “I wish you would, Father,” he answered.

The beggars and the poor confront us with the Gospel.

3 – And he told him: “When the brothers go to any city where they do not have a place, and they find someone who wants to give them enough land to build a place, have a garden, and whatever is necessary for them, they must first consider how much land is enough for them, always considering the holy poverty we have promised, and the good example we are bound to offer to others.”

There is no substitute for contact with the “leper”.

4 – The holy father said this because he did not want the brothers for any reason to go beyond the norm of poverty either in houses or churches, in gardens or in other things they used.

We find freedom in accepting that You are who you are before God and nothing more. The truth will set you free.

5 – And he did not want them to possess the right of ownership to these places, but always to stay in them as pilgrims and strangers.

There is a sacredness in every person.

6 – For this reason, he did not want the brothers to have to be assigned to places in large groups, because it seemed to him that it was difficult to observe poverty fully.

What do I cling to and what is God asking me to let go of?

7 – From the beginning of his conversion until the end, at his death, this was his will: that holy poverty be observed to its fullest. Afterwards they should go to the bishop of that city and say to him: “Lord, for the love of the Lord God and the salvation of his soul, such and such a person wants to give us enough land so that we can build a place there.

Praise the goodness of God in the goodness of His people.

8 – Therefore, we have recourse to you first, because you are the father and lord of the souls of the entire flock entrusted to you, as well as our souls and those of the other brothers who will stay in this place. Therefore, with the blessing of the Lord God and yours, we would like to build there.”

With living stones, we build the Mystical Body of Christ.

9 – The saint would say this because the good of souls the brothers want to produce among the people was better achieved by peace with prelates and clerics, winning them and the people, rather than by scandalizing prelates and clerics, even though they might win the people.

Do we dream a future we believe in enough to strive for it a lifetime?

10 – “The Lord,” he used to say, “has called us to help His faith and the prelates and clerics of holy Mother Church. This is why we are always bound to love, honor, and revere them as much as we can. For this reason let them be called Lesser Brothers because, in name as well as example and deed, they should be humbler than all other people of this world.

The Gospel (Jesus) is the vision of life of the Franciscan.

11 – From the beginning of my conversion, when I separated myself from the world and father in the flesh, the Lord put His word in the mouth of the bishop of Assisi so he could counsel me well in the service of Christ and comfort me.

Our call to repentance is never ending.

12 – On account of this, as well as many other excellent qualities that I consider in prelates, not only in bishops, but in poor priests as well, I want to love them, revere them and regard them as my lords.

When you believe you have achieved your spiritual goal, re-evaluate! Eternity determines, not time!

13 – “After receiving the bishop’s blessing, let them go and have a big ditch dug around the land which they received for building the place, and as a sign of holy poverty and humility, let them place a hedge there, instead of a wall.

The Cross is central in any conversion journey.

14 –  Afterwards they may have poor little houses built, of mud and wood, and some little cells where the brothers can sometimes pray and where, for their own greater decency and also to avoid idle words, they can work.

The life and the whole being of each Christian must be identified around one central axis: fidelity to Jesus Christ.

15 – “They may also have churches made; however, the brothers must not have large churches made, in order to preach to the people there or for any other reason, for it is greater humility and better example when the brothers go to other churches to preach, so that they may observe holy poverty and their humility and decency.”

We begin to pray, believing it is our own initiative that compels us to do so.  Instead , we learn that it is always God’s initiative within us.

16 – “And if prelates and clerics, religious or secular, should sometimes visit their places, their poor house, little cells, and churches in that place will preach to them and edify them.”

Love and prayer are the only sure spiritual levers with which it is possible to lift up the world. And this applies to all areas of life.

17 – “The brothers often have large buildings made, breaking with our holy poverty, resulting in complaints and bad example to their neighbor. Afterwards, they abandon those places and buildings for the sake of better or healthier places, prompting those who gave alms there, as well as others who see or hear about this to be scandalized and greatly upset.

In a world thirsting for peace, it is indeed urgent that Christian communities proclaim the gospel unanimously.

18 – It is, therefore, better that the brothers have small and poor places built, observing their profession, and giving their neighbor good example, rather than making things contrary to their profession and offering bad example to others.

It is indispensable that (Christian communities) witness to divine love, which unites them, and make themselves messengers of joy, hope, and peace.

19 – For, if it should ever happen that the brothers leave their little places and poor buildings for the sake of a more decent place, that would be very bad example and scandal.”

Whoever calls with faith on the name of Jesus can have the experience similar to the one mentioned by Luke: for power came forth from him and healed all

59 – HE DICTATES HIS FIRST TESTAMENT AT SIENA

20 – During those days and in the same cell where blessed Francis spoke about these things to Lord Bonaventure, one evening he wanted to vomit because of the disease of his stomach. Because of the strain he put on himself in vomiting, he vomited up blood all night until morning. When his companions saw him already almost dying from weakness and the pain of his illness, they said to him with great sorrow and flowing tears:

Only a higher moral vision can motivate the choice for life.

21 – “Father, what shall we do? Bless us and the rest of your brothers. In addition. leave your brothers some remembrance of your will, so that, if the Lord wants to call you away from this world, your brothers may always keep it in their memory and say: ‘Our father left these words to his sons and brothers at his death.’”

Provided that we approach the word of God and listen to it as it really is, it brings us into contact with God Himself, God speaking to us.

22 – He then told them: “Call me Brother Benedict of Piratro.” He was a brother priest, discerning and holy, an elder in religion. He sometimes celebrated for blessed Francis in that cell, since, although he was sick, he always wanted, gladly and devoutly, to hear Mass whenever he was able. And when he had come, blessed Francis told him:

May Mary help us love nothing more than Christ, who reveals to the world the mystery of divine love and true human dignity.

23 – “Write that I bless all my brothers, those who are and who will be in the religion until the end of the world.”

(The word of God) brings us into contact with Christ, the Word of God, the Truth, who is at the same time both the Way and the Life.

24 – For when the brothers gathered in chapter, it was always blessed Francis’s custom in the brothers’ chapters, when the brothers were called together at the end of the chapter, to bless and absolve all the brothers present and the others who were in the religion. And he would also bless all those who were to come to this religion.

It is decisive for each one of us to meet Christ personally.

25 – He would bless all the brothers in the religion and those to come, not only in chapters, but also many other times. And blessed Francis told him: “Since I cannot speak much because of weakness and the pain of my illness, I am showing my will to my brothers briefly in these three words: as a sign of remembrance of my blessing and my testament, may they always love each other; may they always love and observe our Lady Holy Poverty; and may they always remain faithful and subject to the prelates and all the clerics of holy Mother Church.”

(Do) not be afraid of openly and courageously expressing (y)our faith in Christ in (y)our daily lives, especially in works of charity and solidarity with those who are in need.

26 – He used to warn the brothers to fear and beware of bad example. Furthermore, he cursed all those who by their wrong and bad example caused people to blaspheme the religion and life of the brothers and the holy and good brothers, who, because of this, were ashamed and distressed.

The world should be enriched by … (our) goodness.

60 – HE CARRIES A BROOM TO CLEAN CHURCHES

27 – At one time while blessed Francis was staying at Saint Mary of the Portiuncula, and there sometimes used to go through the villages and churches in the area around the city of Assisi, proclaiming and preaching to the people that they should do penance. And he would carry a broom to sweep the churches.

The first step of evangelization is to accept the grace of conversion into our own minds and hearts, to let ourselves be reconciled to God’

28 – For blessed Francis was very sad when he entered some church and saw that it was not clean. Therefore, after preaching to the people, at the end of the sermon he would always have all the priests who were present assembled in some remote place so he could not be overheard by secular people.

We must first experience God=s gracious mercy, the love of Christ which has reconciled us to himself and given us the work of handing on this reconciliation.

29 – He would preach to them about the salvation of souls and, in particular, that they should exercise care and concern in keeping churches clean, as well as altars and everything that pertained to the celebration of the divine mysteries.

Man’s relationship with God demands times of explicit prayer, in which the relationship becomes an intense dialogue, involving every dimension of the person.

61 – BROTHER JOHN THE SIMPLE JOINS THE BROTHERS; AND HOW HE IMITATES FRANCIS

30 – One day, blessed Francis went to a church in a village of the city of Assisi and began to sweep it. Immediately talk about this spread through that village, especially because those people enjoyed seeing and hearing him. A man named John heard it, a man of amazing simplicity, who was ploughing in a field of his near the church, and he immediately went to him.

O Lord of life, when the moment of our definitive “passage” comes, grant that we may face it with serenity, without regret for what we shall leave behind.

31 – Finding him sweeping the church, he said to him: “Brother, give me the broom because I want to help you.” Taking the broom from him, he swept the rest. When they sat down, he said to blessed Francis: “Brother, it’s a long time now that I’ve wanted to serve God, especially after I heard talk about you and your brothers, but I did not know how to come to you. Now that it pleased God that I see you, I want to do whatever pleases you.”

Jesus asks us to follow him and to imitate him along the path of love, a love which gives itself completely to the brethren out of love for God.

Peace and Blessings

Fr. Francis A. Sariego, O.F.M. Cap.

Regional Spiritual Assistant

May 2025 Monthly Spiritual Assistant Reflection – Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

 

May 2025

 

O virgin mother, daughter of your Son, humble beyond all creatures and more exalted;

predestined turning point of God’s intention;

Your merit so ennobled human nature

that its divine Creator did not scorn  to make Himself  the creature of His creature.

The Love that was rekindled in Your womb sends for the warmth of the eternal peace

within whose ray this flower has come to bloom.

Here to us, you are the noon and scope of Love revealed;

and among mortal men, the living fountain of eternal hope.

Lady, you are so near God’s reckonings

that who seeks grace and does not first seek you 

would have his wish fly upward without wings.

Not only does your sweet benignity flow out to all who beg,

but oftentimes your charity arrives before the plea.

In you is pity, in you munificence, in you the tenderest heart,

in you unites all that creation knows of excellence!

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Daily reflections from Franciscan Sources continue from Assisi Compilation nos. 47-56

 

51 – HE PERSUADES THE BROTHERS TO GO JOYFULLY BEGGING FOR ALMS

1 – When Francis began to have brothers, he was so happy about their conversion and that the Lord had given him good company, that he loved and revered them so much that he did not tell them to go for alms, especially because it seemed to him that they would be ashamed to go.

Father, bless me with a love that will motivate me to want to journey with Jesus as closely as possible.

2 – Rather, sparing them shame, he himself would go alone for alms every day. His body was worn out by this, especially since in the world he had been a refined man, and of a weak constitution; and he had become weaker from the day when he left the world because of the excessive fasting and suffering he endured.

Father, bless me with a love to follow Jesus to the point of experiencing poverty and dishonor, as he did, if this be for your greater glory.

3 – He considered that he could not bear so much labor, and that they were called to this, even though they would be ashamed, and did not fully understand; but neither had they been discerning enough to tell him: “We want to go for alms.”

Take, Lord, and receive all my liberty, my memory, my understanding, and my entire will, all that I hold dear.

4 – So he talked to them. “My dearest brothers and sons, don’t be ashamed to go for alms, because the Lord for our sake made Himself poor in this world.

To be Christian is to be like Christ.

5 – Therefore, because of His example, we have chosen the way of the most genuine poverty and that of His most holy Mother. This is our inheritance, which the Lord Jesus Christ acquired and bequeathed to us and to all who want to live in holy poverty according to His example.”

What we need is not more Christianity but more Christians who practice it.

6 – And he told them: “I tell you the truth: many of the noblest and wisest of this world will come to this congregation and they will consider it a great honor to go for alms.

The only tyrant I accept in this world is the still voice within.

7 – Therefore, go for alms confidently with joyful hearts with the blessing of the Lord God. And you ought to go begging more willingly and with more joyful hearts than someone who is offering a hundred silver pieces in exchange for a single penny, since you are offering the love of God to those from whom you seek alms.

If a person does not keep pace with his companions perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.

8 – Say to them: ‘Give alms to us for the love of the Lord God: compared to this, heaven and earth are nothing!’” They were still few in number so that he could not send them out two by two, so he sent each one separately through the towns and villages.

To reach the port of heaven we must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it, but we must sail and not drift nor lie in anchor.

9 – When they returned, each one showed blessed Francis the alms he had collected, one saying to the other, “I collected more alms than you!” This gave blessed Francis reason to rejoice, seeing them so happy and cheerful. From then on each of them more willingly asked permission to go for alms.

It is possible to give without loving, but it is not possible to love without giving.

52  –  HE DOES NOT WANT THE BROTHERS TO THINK ABOUT TOMORROW, FOLLOWING THE GOSPEL

10 – At that time, as Blessed Francis was with his brothers whom he had then, he was of such purity that, from the hour the Lord revealed to him that he and his brothers should live according to the form of the holy Gospel, he desired and strove to observe it to the letter.

Choice, not chance, determines destiny.

11 – Therefore he told the brother who did the cooking for the brothers, that when he wanted the brothers to eat beans, he should not put them in warm water in the evening for the next day, as people usually do. This was so the brothers would observe the words of the holy Gospel: “Do not be concerned about tomorrow.”

Lord, bless me with the clarity of vision to discern your will for me and the courage of heart to carry it out.

12 – So that brother used to put them in water to soften after the brothers said matins. Because of this, for a long time many brothers observed this in a great many places where they stayed on their own, especially in cities. They did not want to collect or receive more alms than were enough for them for one day.

Every action in our lives touches on some chord that will vibrate in eternity.

53  –  HE EATS GRAPES WITH A SICK BROTHER

13 – One time when blessed Francis was at that same place, a certain brother, a spiritual man, an elder in religion, was staying there. He was very sick and weak. Considering him, blessed Francis was moved to piety toward him. The brothers back then, sick and healthy, with cheerfulness and patience took poverty for abundance.

Apathy is the glove into which evil slips its hand.

14 – They did not take medicines in their illnesses, but more willingly did what was contrary to the body. Blessed Francis said to himself: “If that brother would eat some ripe grapes early in the morning, I believe it would help him.”

We are our choices.

15 – One day, therefore, he secretly got up early in the morning, and called that brother and took him into the vineyard which is near that same church. He chose a vine that had grapes that were good and ready for eating. Sitting down with that brother next to the vine, he began to eat some grapes so that the brother would not be ashamed to eat alone, and while they were eating them, that brother praised the Lord God. As long as he lived, he always recalled among the brothers, with great devotion and flowing tears, the mercy the holy father had done to him.

Who does not stay in his littleness loses his greatness.

54 – A SURPRISING VISIT FROM THE BISHOP OF ASSISI

16 – One time when blessed Francis was at that same place, he stayed at prayer in the cell that was in the back, behind the house. One day while he was staying in it, the bishop of Assisi came to see him.

Who prays as he ought, will endeavor to live as he prays.

17 – It happened that as he came into the house, he knocked on the door to approach blessed Francis. He opened the door himself, and immediately entered the cell in which there was another small cell made of mats where blessed Francis stayed.

If it is going to be, it is up to me.

18 – And because he knew that the holy father treated him with friendliness and love, he entered without hesitation, and opened for himself the little cell of mats to see him. As he quickly stuck his head inside the little cell, all of a sudden, by the will of the Lord, because he was not worthy to see him, he was forcefully pushed outside, willy-nilly, stumbling backwards.

God’s kingdom is within; only by searching within, will I find it.

19 – He immediately came outside the cell, trembling and stunned, and told the brothers his fault, and said he was sorry for coming there that day.

Fans don’t boo nobodies.

55  –  HIS FRIENDSHIP FREES A BROTHER FROM DEPRESSION

20 – There was a certain brother, a spiritual man, an elder in religion, and close to blessed Francis. It happened one time that for many days he suffered the most severe and cruel suggestions of the devil, so that he was almost cast into the depths of despair.

He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help.

21 – And even though he was tormented daily, he was ashamed to confess it every time. And, because of this, he afflicted himself with fasting, with vigils, with tears, and with beatings. While he was being tormented daily for many days, blessed Francis came to that place by divine guidance.

With complete truthfulness, everything we have learned through life, everything that has truly enhanced our life and enlightened our experiences has been through affliction and not through happiness.

22 – And when blessed Francis was walking one day not too far from that place with one brother and with the brother who was so tormented, he left the other brother behind and walked with the one who was being tempted. He said to him: “My dearest brother, I wish and tell you that from now on you are not bound to confess these suggestions and intrusions of the devil to anyone.

Character is a victory, not a gift.

23 – Don’t be afraid, because they have not harmed your soul. But I give you my permission just to say seven Our Father’s as often as you are troubled by these suggestions.”

Jesus cannot be our Savior unless he is first our Lord.

24 – That brother was overjoyed at what he said to him, that he was not bound to confess those things, especially because, since he would have had to confess daily, he was quite upset, and this was the main reason for his suffering.

In Jesus Christ, true God and true man rests our hope for real humanity.

25 – He marveled at the holiness of the holy father, how he knew his temptations through the Holy Spirit, since he had not confessed to anyone except priests. And he would frequently switch priests because of shame, since he was ashamed that one priest would know all his weakness and temptation.

The Lord your God, who is present with you, is a great and awesome God.

26 – From the very moment blessed Francis spoke to him, he was immediately freed both in spirit and body from that great trial which he endured for such a long time. And, through the grace of God and the merits of blessed Francis, he remained in great serenity and peace of soul and body.

Happy are those who work for peace; God will call them his children.

56 – HE RECEIVES THE PORTIUNCULA FROM THE ABBOT OF THEMONASTERY OF SAINT BENEDICT; HE TRIES TO DESTROY A HOUSE BUILT THERE; SPECIAL NORMS FOR BROTHERS WHO LIVE THERE

27 – Seeing that the Lord willed to increase the number of brothers, blessed Francis told them: “My dearest brothers and sons, I see that the Lord wants us to increase. Therefore, it seems good and religious to me to obtain from the bishop, or the canons of San Rufino, or from the abbot of the monastery of Saint Benedict, some small and poor little church where the brothers can say their Hours and only have next to it a small and poor little house built of mud and branches where they can sleep and care for their needs.

The Will of God – Nothing More, Nothing Less.

28 – This place is not suitable, and this house is too small for the brothers to stay in, since it pleases the Lord to increase them, especially because here we do not have a church where the brothers can say their Hours. And, should any brother die, it would not be proper to bury him here or in a church of the secular clergy.”

Character consists of what you do on the third and fourth tries.

29 – This speech pleased the other brothers. So blessed Francis got up and went to the bishop of Assisi. The same speech he made to the brothers he made to the bishop. “Brother,” the bishop answered him, “I do not have any church that I can give you.”

We shall steer safely through every storm so long as our heart is right, intention fervent, courage steadfast and our trust is fixed firmly on God.

30 – Then he went to the canons of San Rufino and said the same thing to them. But they gave him the same answer as the bishop. He went, therefore, to the monastery of Saint Benedict on Mount Subasio, and made the same speech to the abbot he had made to the bishop and the canons, informing him also of how the bishop and the canons had responded.

Prayer does not change God, but changes him who prays.

Alleluia!  He is Risen!  Alleluia!  He is Truly Risen!  Alleluia!

 

Peace and Blessings,

Fr. Francis A. Sariego, O.F.M. Cap.

Regional Spiritual Assistant

April 2025 Monthly Spiritual Assistant Reflection – Fr Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

April 2025

 

Wherever we are, in every place,

at every hour, at every time of the day, every day and continually,

let all of us truly and humbly believe, hold in our heart and love, honor, adore, serve,

praise and bless, glorify and exalt, magnify and give thanks

to the Most High and Supreme Eternal God, Trinity and Unity,

Father, Son and Holy Spirit,

Creator of all, Savior of all who believe and hope in Him, and love Him,

Who, without beginning and end, is unchangeable, invisible, indescribable, ineffable,

incomprehensible, unfathomable, blessed, praiseworthy, glorious, exalted,

sublime, most high, gentle, lovable, delightful,

and totally desirable above all else for ever.

Amen.

(Prayer of Saint Francis taken from the Earlier Rule, chapter 23)

 

Daily reflections from Franciscan Sources continue from Assisi Compilation nos. 47-50

47 – THE BROTHERS AND STUDY

1 – It grieved the blessed Father when brothers sought learning while neglecting virtue, especially if they did not remain in that calling in which they were first called. He said: “Those brothers of mine who are led by curiosity for knowledge will find themselves empty-handed on the day of reckoning.

Gratitude is a sign of noble souls.

2 – I would prefer that they grow strong in virtue, so that when the times of tribulation arrive they may have the Lord with them in their distress. For, he said, a tribulation is approaching, when books, useful for nothing, shall be thrown into cupboards and closets!”

God has two dwellings. One is in heaven and the other in a meek and humble heart.

3 – He did not say these things out of dislike for the study of Scriptures, but to draw all of them back from excessive concern for learning, because he preferred that they be good through charity rather than be dilettantes through curiosity.   Besides, he could smell in the air that a time was coming, and not too far away, when he knew learning would be an occasion of ruin.

What we need is people who know God other than by hearsay.

4 – After his death he appeared in a vision to one of the companions who was once tending toward preaching, and he forbade it, commanding him to walk on the way of simplicity.

People want to know how much you care before they care how much you know.

48 – HE DETESTED LAZINESS AND WANTED ALL THE BROTHERS TO WORK

5 – He used to say that the lukewarm who do not apply themselves constantly to some work, would quickly be vomited out of the Lord’s mouth. No idler could appear in his presence without feeling the sharp bite of his criticism.

Disciples care more than others think necessary.

6 – This exemplar of every perfection always worked, and worked with his hands, not allowing the great gift of time to go to waste. And so he would often say: “I want all my brothers to work and keep busy, and those who have no skills to learn some so that we may be less of a burden to people, and that in idleness the heart and tongue may not stray.”

Disciples trust more than others think wise.

7 – But he would not have profit or payment for work left to the whim of the worker, but entrusted it to the guardian or the family.

Disciples serve more than others think practical.

49 – SAINT FRANCIS AND SAINT DOMINIC ARE GUESTS OF CARDINAL HUGOLINO

8 – Those two bright lights of the world, namely, Saint Francis and Saint Dominic, were once in the City with the Lord of Ostia, who later became Supreme Pontiff. As they took turns pouring out honey-sweet words about the Lord, the bishop finally said to them: “In the early Church the Church’s shepherds were poor, and men of charity, not on fire with greed. Why don’t we make bishops and prelates of your brothers who excel in teaching and example.”

Disciples expect more than others think possible.

9 – There arose a disagreement between the saints about answering, neither wishing to go first, but rather each deferring to the other. Each urged the other to reply. Each seemed superior to the other, since each was devoted to the other.

You see things as they are and ask, “Why?” But I dream things that never were and ask, “Why not?”

10 – At last humility conquered Francis as he did not speak first, but it also conquered Dominic, since in speaking first, he humbly obeyed Francis. Blessed Dominic therefore answered the bishop, My lord, my brothers are already raised to a good level, if they will only realize it, and as much as possible I would not allow them to obtain any other appearance of dignity.”

What are riches compared to skill, wisdom, and understanding?

11 – As this brief response ended, Blessed Francis bowed to the bishop and said: “My lord, my brothers are called ‘lesser’ precisely so they will not presume to become ‘greater.’ They have been called this to teach them to stay down to earth, and to follow the footprints of Christ’s humility, which in the end will exalt them above others in the sight of the saints. If you want them to bear fruit in the Church of God, keep them in the status in which they were called and hold them to it.

Until we lose ourselves there is no hope of finding ourselves.

12 – Bring them back down to ground level even against their will. Never allow them to rise to become prelates” These were the replies of the saints. When they finished their replies, the Lord of Ostia was greatly edified by the words of both and gave unbounded thanks to God. And as they left that place, blessed Dominic asked Saint Francis to be kind enough to give him the cord he had tied around him.

Lord, help me to let go of whatever is keeping me from following you.

13 – Francis was slow to do this, refusing out of humility what the other was requesting out of charity. At last the happy devotion of the petitioner won out, and he devoutly put on the gift under his inner tunic. Finally they clasped hands and commended themselves to each other with great sweetness. And so one saint said to the other: “Brother Francis, I wish your Order and mine might become one, so we could share the same form of life in the Church.”

Those who know others are learned. Those who know themselves are wise.

14 – At last, when they had parted from each other, Saint Dominic said to the many bystanders: “In truth I tell you, the other religious should follow this holy man Francis, as his holiness is so perfect”.

Duty makes us do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.

50 – HE EATS WITH A BROTHER WHO CLAIMS HE IS DYING OF HUNGER; AUSTERE WITH HIMSELF, HE WAS COMPASSIONATE WITH OTHERS

15 – One time in the very beginning, that is, at the time when blessed Francis began to have brothers, he was staying with them at Rivo Torto. One night, around midnight, when they were all asleep in their beds, one of the brothers cried out, saying: “I’m dying! I’m dying!”

To ease another’s heartbreak is to forget one’s own.

16 – Startled and frightened all the brothers woke up. Getting up, blessed Francis said: “Brothers, get up and light a lamp.” After the lamp was lit, blessed Francis said: “Who was it who said, ‘I’m dying?’ ” “I’m the one,” the brother answered. “What’s the matter, brother?” blessed Francis said to him. ‘Why are you dying?”

To love is to know the sacrifices which eternity exacts from life.

17 – “I’m dying of hunger,” he answered. So that that brother would not be ashamed to eat alone, blessed Francis, a man of great charity and discernment, immediately had the table set and they all ate together with him. This brother, as well as the others, were newly converted to the Lord and afflicted their bodies excessively.

The only things necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing.

18 – After the meal, blessed Francis said to the other brothers: “My brothers, I say that each of you must consider his own constitution, because, although one of you may be sustained with less food than another, I still do not want one who needs more food to try imitating him in this.

When my spirit soars, my body falls on its knees.

19 – Rather, considering his constitution, he should provide his body with what it needs. Just as we must beware of overindulgence in eating, which harms body and soul, so we must beware of excessive abstinence even more, because the Lord desires mercy and not sacrifice.”

The face of Christ shows us the one thing we need to know, the character of God.

20 – And he said: “Dearest brothers, great necessity and charity compelled me to do what I did, namely, that out of love for our brother we ate together with him, so he wouldn’t be embarrassed to eat alone. But I tell you in the future I do not wish to act this way because it wouldn’t be religious or decent.

Who lives for himself is apt to be corrupted by the company he keeps.

21 – Let each one provide his body with what it needs as our poverty will allow. This is what I wish and command you.”

We are rich in proportion to the number of things we can do without.

22 – The first brothers and those who came after them for a long time mortified their bodies excessively, not only by abstinence in food and drink, but also in vigils, cold, and manual labor.

Ignore people who try to belittle you, they’re only trying to cut you down to their size.

23 – Next to their skin, those who could get them wore iron rings and breastplates and the roughest hair shirts, which they were even better able to get.

Serve one another with what every gift each of you has received.

24 – Considering that the brothers could get sick because of this, and in a short time some were already ailing, the holy father therefore commanded in one of the chapters that no brother wear anything next to the skin except the tunic.

Where love is, there is God also.

25 – We who were with him bear witness to this fact about him: from the time he began to have brothers, and also during his whole lifetime, he was discerning with the brothers, provided that in the matter of food and other things, they did not deviate at any time from the norm of the poverty and decency of our religion, which the early brothers observed.

There is no security on earth, there is only opportunity.

28 – Nevertheless, even before he had brothers, from the beginning of his conversion and during his whole lifetime, he was severe with his own body, even though from the time of his youth he was a man of a frail and weak constitution, and when he was in the world he could not live without comforts.

Pray to God, but row to the shore.

29 – One time, perceiving that the brothers had exceeded the norm of poverty and decency in food and in things, he said in a sermon he gave, speaking to a few brothers, who stood for all the brothers: “Don’t the brothers think that my body needs special food?

Prayers travel more strongly when said in unison.

30 – But because I must be the model and example for all the brothers, I want to use and be content with poor food and things, not fine ones.”

If you haven’t got charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart trouble.

 

March 2025 Monthly Spiritual Assistant Reflection – Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

 

March 2025

Most High, glorious God,
enlighten the darkness of my heart and give me
true faith, certain hope, and perfect charity,
sense and knowledge, Lord, that I may carry out
Your holy and true command. Amen.

(Prayer of St. Francis before the Crucifix)

 

(Franciscan Sources Daily thought from Assisi Compilation 37-46,

daily quotes from various sources)

1 – [He used to pierce eyes that are not chaste with this parable. “A powerful] and pious king sent two messengers to his queen, one after the other. The first returned and simply reported her words verbatim. Truly the eyes of the wise man stayed in his head and did not dart elsewhere. The other returned and, after reporting in brief words, launched into a long story about the lady’s beauty. ‘Truly, my lord, I saw a lovely woman; happy is he who enjoys her!’

When I will what God wills, then I know my heart is right.

2 – And the king said, ‘You evil servant, you cast your shameless eyes on my wife? It is clear that you would like to buy what you inspected so carefully!’ He then called back the first messenger and asked: ‘What did you think of the queen?’ And he answered: ‘I thought very highly of her, for she listened gladly and then replied wisely.’ ‘And don’t you think she’s beautiful?’ the king said. ‘My lord,’ he said, ‘this is for you to see; my job was simply to deliver messages.’

Lord, enlighten my mind to see my sinfulness.

3 – And the king then pronounced his sentence: ‘You, chaste of eyes, even more chaste in body, stay in my chamber. Let that other man leave my house, so he does not defile my marriage bed.’ ” He used to say: Who would not fear to look at the bride of Christ?

Soul of Christ, sanctify me.

38  SOMETIMES HE BROKE OUT SINGING IN FRENCH, ENDING IN ECSTASY

4 – Sometimes he used to do this: a sweet melody of the spirit bubbling up inside him would become on the outside a French tune; the thread of a divine whisper which his ears heard secretly would break out in a French song. Other times—as I saw with my own eyes—he would pick up a stick from the ground and put it over his left arm, while holding a bent bow in his right hand, drawing it over the stick as if it were a viola, performing all the right movements, and in French would sing] about God.

Body of Christ, save me.

5 – All of this dancing often ended in tears, and the cry of joy dissolved into compassion for Christ’s suffering. Then the saint would sigh without stopping and sob without ceasing. Forgetful of lower things he had in hand, he was caught up to heaven.

Blood of Christ, inebriate me.

39  HIS PRAYER FOR THE ORDER

6 – In order to preserve the virtue of holy humility, a few years after his conversion, at a chapter, he resigned the office of prelate before all the brothers of the religion, saying: “From now on, I am dead to you. But here you have Brother Peter of Catanio; let us all, you and I, obey him.” And bowing down immediately, he promised him obedience and reverence.

Water from the side of Christ, wash me.

7 – The brothers were weeping, and sorrow drew deep groans from them, as they saw themselves orphaned of such a father. As blessed Francis got up, he joined his hands and, lifting his eyes to heaven, said: “Lord, I give back to You the family which until now You have entrusted to me. Now, sweetest Lord, because of my infirmities, which You know, I can no longer take care of them and I entrust them to the ministers.

Passion of Christ, strengthen me.

8 – If any brother should perish because of their negligence, or example, or even harsh correction, let them be bound to render an account for it before You, Lord, on the day of judgment.” From that time on, he remained subject until his death, behaving more humbly than any of the others.

O Good Jesus, hear me.

40  HE REFUSES TO HAVE COMPANIONS CHARGED WITH CARING FOR HIM

9 – Another time he consigned all his companions to his vicar, saying: “I don’t want to seem singular because of this privilege of freedom; any brothers can go with me from place to place ‘as the Lord inspires them.’” And he added: “Why, I have seen a blind man who had no guide for his journey except one little dog.” This indeed was his glory: he gave up any appearance of being singular or important, so that the power of Christ might dwell in him.

Within Your wounds hide me, Good Jesus.

41  GOOD BROTHERS PUNISH THEMSELVES FOR AN OFFENSE AGAINST CHARITY

10 – He used to affirm that the Lesser Brothers had been sent from the Lord in these last times to show forth examples of light to those wrapped in the darkness of sins. He would say that he was filled with the sweetest fragrance and anointed with strength from precious ointment whenever he heard of the great deeds of holy brothers in faraway lands. It happened that a brother once threw out an insulting word at another brother in the presence of a nobleman of the island of Cyprus.

Good Jesus, do not allow me to be separated from you.

11 – But when he saw that his brother was rather hurt by the impact of that word, he took some donkey manure and, burning with rage against himself, put it into his mouth to chew, saying: “Let the tongue that spat the poison of anger on my brother now chew manure!”

Lord Jesus, defend me from the wicked enemy of my soul.

12 – At seeing this, that man was thunder-stuck, and went away greatly edified; from that time on, he put himself and all he had at disposal of the brothers. All the brothers observed this custom without fail: if any of them spoke an upsetting word to another, he would immediately fall to the ground and embrace the feet of the one he had offended, even if unwilling, with holy kisses.

Good Jesus, at the hour of death call me to Yourself.

13 – The saint rejoiced over such behavior, when he heard the examples of holiness that his sons themselves produced, and he would heap blessings worthy of full acceptance on those brothers, who, by word or deed, led sinners to the love of Christ. Zeal for souls, which filled him completely, made him want his sons to resemble him as a true likeness.

Grant, good Jesus, that I may praise You with all the saints forever and ever.

42  A DESCRIPTION OF THE GENERAL MINISTER

14 – As he neared the end of his call to the Lord, a brother said to him: “Father, you will pass on, and the family of your followers will be left behind in this vale of tears. Point out someone in the Order, if you know one, on whom your spirit may rest, and on whom the weight of the general ministry may safely be laid.” Saint Francis, drawing a sigh with every word, replied as follows: “Son, I find no one adequate to be the leader of such a varied army, or the shepherd of such a widespread flock. But I would like to paint one for you to show clearly what kind of person the father of this family should be.

No one can produce great things who is not thoroughly sincere in dealing with himself.

15 – “He must be a person of very dignified life, of great discernment, and of praiseworthy reputation. He must be without personal favorites, lest by loving some more than others, he create scandal for all. He must be a committed friend of holy prayer, who can distribute some hours for his soul and others for the flock entrusted to him. He must put the sacrament of the Mass first, early in the morning, and with prolonged devotion commend himself and his flock to divine protection.

My sense of sin is linked to my sense of God.

16 – “After prayer, he must make himself available for all to pick at him, and he should respond to all and provide for all with meekness. He is someone who does not create sordid favoritism toward persons, but will take as much care of the lesser and simple brothers as of the learned and greater ones. Even if he should be allowed to excel in gifts of learning, he should all the more bear in his behavior the image of holy simplicity and nourish this virtue. He should loathe money, the principal corrupter of our profession and perfection. As the head of our [religion, offering himself to others as someone to be imitated, he must never engage in the abuse of using any money pouch.” – The closer I am to God, the more aware I am of my sinfulness.

17 – “For his needs,” he said, “a habit and a little book should be enough for him and, for the brothers’ needs he should have a pen case and seal. He should not be a book collector or too intent on reading, so he does not take away from his duties what he spends on his studies.

Distance from God reduces the contrast necessary for me to recognize my true condition.

18 – Let him be someone who comforts the afflicted, and the final refuge of the distressed, so that the sickness of despair does not overcome the sick because he did not offer healing remedies. In order to bend rebels to meekness, let him lower himself and let go of some of his rights that he may gain a soul for Christ.

They are two kinds of people: the righteous who believe themselves sinners, and the rest who believe themselves righteous.

19 – As for runaways from the Order, let him not close the heart of mercy to them, for they are like lost sheep; and he knows how overpowering the temptations can be which can push someone to such a fall.”

O Lord, reform our world, beginning with me.

20 – “I want all to honor him as standing in Christ’s place, and to be provided for in everything with all the kindness of Christ. He must not enjoy honors, nor delight in approval more than insults. If he should need more substantial food, he should not eat it in secret but in a public place, so that others may be freed from embarrassment at having to provide for their weak bodies.

Voice of Jesus, you called me when I strayed from You.

21 – It especially pertains to him to discern what is hidden in consciences and to draw out the truth from its hidden veins. Let him never weaken the manly norm of justice, and he must feel such a great office more a burden than an honor. And yet, excessive meekness should not give birth to slackness, nor loose indulgence to a breakdown of discipline, so that, loved by all, he is feared nonetheless, by those who work evil.

Arms of Jesus, you raised me when I slipped and fell.

22 – I would like him to have companions endowed with honesty, who], with him, [show themselves an example of all good works, strong against difficulties, and yet friendly in the right way, so that they receive all who come to them with holy cheerfulness. There,” he concluded, “the general minister of the Order should be like this”.

Heart of Jesus, You loved me even when I sin.

43  HE RESPONDS TO A BROTHER ASKING WHY HE ABANDONED GOVERNING THE ORDER

23 – Once a brother asked him why he had renounced the care of all the brothers and turned them over into the hands of others, as if they did not belong to him. He replied: “Son, I love the brothers as I can, but if they would and would not make myself a stranger to them. For, there are some among the prelates who draw them in a different direction, placing before them the examples of the ancients and paying little attention to my warnings. But what they are doing will be seen in the end.”

The great thing in this world is not where we are, but in what direction we are going.

24 – A short time later, when he was suffering a serious illness, he raised himself up in bed in an angry spirit: “Who are these people? They have snatched out of my hands my religion and that of the brothers. If I go to the general chapter, I’ll show them what is my will.”

God will not look you over for medals, degrees, or diplomas, but scars

45  HE WAS NOT ASHAMED TO BEG EVEN MEAT FOR SICK BROTHERS

25 – Blessed Francis [was not embarrassed to go through the city’s public places to find some meat for a sick brother. However, he also advised the sick to be patient when things were lacking and not stir up a scandal if everything was not to their satisfaction.

It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are held accountable.

26 – Because of this he had these words written in one of the Rules: “I beg all my sick brothers that in their illness they do not become angry or upset at the Lord or the brothers. They should not anxiously seek medicines, nor desire too eagerly to free the flesh that is soon to die and is an enemy of the soul.

Lord, teach me about death, that it may teach me about life.

27 – Let them give thanks for all things and let them desire to be however God wills them to be. For God teaches with the rod of punishments and sicknesses those whom he has destined to eternal life as he himself has said: ‘Those whom I love I correct and chastise.’

One cannot prepare for death too soon, because one cannot be sure when too soon will be too late.

46  PRAISE OF THE RULE

28 – He burned with great zeal for the common profession and Rule, and endowed those who were zealous about it with a special blessing. He called it their Book of Life, the hope of salvation, the marrow of the Gospel, the way of perfection, the key of Paradise, the pact of an eternal covenant. – Ever notice how everybody wants to go to heaven and nobody wants to die?

29 – He wanted all to have it, all to know it, in all places to let it speak to the inner man, as encouragement in weariness and as a reminder of a sworn oath. He taught them to keep it always before their eyes as a reminder of the life they should lead, and, what is more, that they should die with it.

Unexpressed gratitude is like winking at someone in the dark, You know how you feel about them, but they don’t.

30 – This teaching was not forgotten by a certain lay brother whom we believe should be venerated among the martyrs, since he gained the palm of glorious victory. When he was taken by the Saracens to his martyrdom, he held the Rule in his uplifted hands, and kneeling humbly, said to his companion: “Dear brother I proclaim myself guilty before the eye’s of Majesty of everything I ever did against this holy Rule!”

Some complain that God put thorns on roses; others give thanks that God put roses among the thorns.

31 – The stroke of the sword followed this short confession, and with his martyrdom he ended his life, and afterwards shone with signs and wonders. This brother had entered the Order so young that he could hardly bear the Rule’s fasting, yet even as a boy he wore a harness next to his skin. Oh happy child, who began happily to end even happier!

Gratitude is a sign of noble souls.

Prayer of King Mannasseh

Lord Almighty, God of our ancestors, You made heaven and Earth with all their beauty.

You set limits for creation by Your powerful and glorious Name.
All things stand in awe in Your presence,

because no one can endure the splendor of Your glory.
Your promised mercies are beyond measure and imagination, because You are the highest,

Lord, kind, patient, and merciful, and You care for Your children who suffer.

You, Lord, according to Your gentle grace,

promised forgiveness to those who are sorry for their sins.
In Your great mercy, You allowed sinners to turn from their sins and find salvation.
Lord, God of those who do what is right,

You always offer us chances to change our hearts and lives.

You offer me, the sinner, the chance to change my heart and life.

My sins are many, Lord. I am not worthy to look up, to gaze into heaven.

I bow down before You from deep within my heart, imploring Your kindness.

Forgive me, Lord, forgive me. For You, Lord, are God of those who turn from their sins.
In me You’ll show how kind You are.

Although I’m not worthy, You’ll save me according to Your great mercy.

I will praise You continuously all the days of my life,

because all the hosts of heaven praise You.

The glory is Yours forever and ever. Amen

(adapted abbreviated form of the Penitential Prayer of King Manasseh of Judah,

an apocryphal Scripture found in St. Jerome’s translation)

 

February 2025 – Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap, Monthly Spiritual Reflection

St. Katharine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

February 2025

 

Pope Francis Prayer for the Holy Year 2025

 

From within both humanity and the Father in heaven,

may the faith you have given us in Your son, Jesus Christ, our brother,

and the flame of charity

enkindled in our hearts by the Holy Spirit,

reawaken in us the blessed hope for the coming of Your Kingdom.

May Your grace transform us

into tireless cultivators of the seeds of the Gospel.

May those seeds transform the whole cosmos

in the sure expectation of a new heaven and a new earth,

when, with the powers of Evil vanquished,

Your glory will shine eternally.

May the grace of the Jubilee

reawaken in us, Pilgrims of Hope,

a yearning for the treasures of heaven.

May that same grace

spread the joy and peace of our Redeemer throughout the earth.

To You our God, eternally blessed, be glory and praise for ever.

Amen

 

Daily excerpts continue from the Assisi Compilation 23-36, daily quotes from various sources

 

23-26  THE DWELLINGS OF THE BROTHERS SHOULD BE POOR; ABOUT FURNISHINGS, BOOKS, AND BEDS

1 – He taught his] brothers to make poor little dwellings out of wood, and not stone, and how to build these huts according to a crude sketch. He did not want the brothers to live in any place unless it had a definite owner who held the property rights. He always wanted to have the law of pilgrims for his sons.

God says to us: With your very wounds I will heal you.

2 – This man not only hated pretense in houses; he also abhorred having many or fine furnishings in them. He disliked anything, in tables or dishes, that recalled the ways of the world. He wanted everything to sing of exile and pilgrimage.

Never fear shadows. They simply mean there’s light shining somewhere nearby.

3 – He taught that in books the testimony of the Lord, not value, should be sought, edification rather than elegance. He wanted few books kept, and these should be available to the brothers who needed them.

All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.

4 – Finally, beds and coverings abounded in such plentiful poverty that if a brother had a ragged sheet over some straw he considered it a bridal couch.

Give me faith, Lord, and let me help others find it.

27  HE REBUKES A BROTHER WHO TOUCHED COINS LEFT AT THE PORTIUNCULA

5 – While this true friend of God completely despised all worldly things, he detested money above all. From the beginning of his conversion, he despised money particularly and encouraged his followers to flee from it always as from the devil himself. He gave his followers this observation: money and manure are equally worthy of love.

Lord teach me to be generous.

6 – Now it happened one day that a layman came to pray in the church of Saint Mary of the Portiuncula and placed some money by the cross as an offering. When he left, one of the brothers simply picked it up with his hand and threw it on the windowsill. What the brother had done reached the saint, and he, seeing he had been caught, ran to ask forgiveness, threw himself to the ground, and offered himself to be whipped.

A humble knowledge of myself is a surer way to God than a search after learning.

7 – The saint rebuked him and reprimanded him severely for touching coins. He ordered him to pick up the money from the windowsill with his own mouth, take it outside the fence of that place, and with his mouth to put it on the donkey’s manure pile.

If I saw myself as my friends and other people see me, I would need an introduction.

8 – While that brother was gladly carrying out this command, fear filled the hearts of the rest who heard it. From then on, all of them held in even greater contempt what had been so equated with manure and were encouraged to despise it by new examples every day.

It isn’t a calamity to die with dreams unfulfilled, but it I a calamity not to dream.

28-30  HIS EXHORTATIONS ABOUT AVOIDING SOFT CLOTHING AND ENDURING LACK OF NECESSITIES

9 – Clothed with power this man was warmed more by divine fire on the inside than by what covered his body on the outside. He detested those in the Order who dressed in three layers of clothing or who wore soft clothes without necessity.

It is better to be patient than powerful.

10 – As for “necessity” not based on reason but on pleasure, he declared that it was a sign of a spirit that was extinguished. “When the spirit is lukewarm,” he said, “and gradually growing cold as it moves from grace, flesh and blood inevitably seek their own interests.

–  It is better to win control over yourself than over whole cities.

10 – When the soul finds no delight, what is left except for the flesh to look for some? Then the base instinct covers itself with the excuse of necessity, and the mind of the flesh forms the conscience.”

I thank God for my handicaps, for through them, I have found myself, my work, and my God.

11 – And he added: ”Let’s say one of my brothers encounters a real necessity: he is affected by some need. If he rushes to satisfy it, what reward will he get? He found an occasion for merit, but clearly showed that he did not like it.”

Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things “turn out”!

12 – With these and similar words he pierced those who would not tolerate necessity. He taught that not bearing patiently with need is the same as returning to Egypt. He did not want the brothers to have more than two tunics under any circumstances, and these he allowed to be mended with patches sewn on them. He ordered the brothers to shun fine fabrics, and those who acted to the contrary he rebuked publicly with biting words.

Bing shots are only little shots who keep shooting.

13 – To confound them by his example, he sewed sackcloth on his own rough tunic and at his death he asked that the tunic for his funeral be covered in cheap sackcloth. But he allowed brothers pressed by illness or other necessity to wear a soft tunic next to the skin, as long as rough and cheap clothing was kept on the outside. For he said: “A time will come when strictness will be relaxed, and tepidity will hold such sway, that sons of a poor father will not be the least ashamed to wear even velvet cloth, just changing the color.

Make sure the thing that you’re living for is worth dying for.

31  HE GIVES AWAY A MANTLE TO A POOR WOMAN

14 – In Celano at winter time, Saint Francis was wearing a piece of folded cloth as a cloak, which a friend of the brothers had lent him. While he was at the palace of the bishop of the Marsi, an old woman came up to him begging for alms. He quickly unfastened the cloth from his neck, and, although it belonged to someone else, he gave it to the poor old woman, saying: “Go and make yourself a tunic; you really need it.”

Nothing is profane down here for those who know how to see. On the contrary everything is sacred.

15 – The old woman laughed; she was stunned—I don’t know if it was out of fear or joy—and took the piece of cloth from his hands. She ran off quickly, so that delay might not bring the danger of having to give it back, and cut it with scissors.

A time like this demands strong minds, great hearts, true faith and ready hands.

16 – But when she saw that the cut cloth would not be enough for a tunic, she returned to the saint, knowing his earlier kindness to a degree, and showed him that the material was not enough. The saint turned his eyes on his companion, who had just the same cloth covering his back. “Brother,” he said, “do you hear what this old woman is saying? For the love of God, let us bear with the cold! Give the poor woman the cloth so she can finish her tunic.”

God’s presence is not discerned at the time that it is upon us, but afterward when we look back.

17 – He gave his; the companion offered his as well; and both were left naked, so the old woman could be clothed.

God exists within us even more intimately than we exist within ourselves.

32  RETURNING FROM SIENA HE GIVES A MANTLE TO A POOR MAN

18 – Another time, when he was coming back from Siena, he met a poor man, and said to his companion: “We must give back to this poor man the mantle that is his. We accepted it on loan until we should happen to find someone poorer than we are.”

God is an unutterable sigh, lying in the depth of the heart.

19 – The companion, seeing the need of his pious father, stubbornly objected that he should not provide for someone else by neglecting himself. But he said to him: “I do not want to be a thief; we will be accused of theft if we do not give to someone in greater need.” So his companion gave in, and he gave up the mantle.

Lord, put into my heart an unshakeable conviction that you have a place for me, even though I might not yet know it.

33  AT THE “LE CELLE” DI CORTONA THE BROTHERS HAVE TO RANSOM HIS MANTLE FROM A POOR MAN

20 – A similar thing happened at “Le Celle” of Cortona. Blessed Francis was wearing a new mantle that the brothers had gone to some trouble to find for him. A poor man came to the place weeping for his dead wife and his poor little family that was left desolate. The saint said to him: “I’m giving you this cloak for the love of the Son of God, but on the condition that you do not hand it over to anyone unless they pay well for it.”

Ideal are like stars, you will not succeed in touching them with your hands, but following them you will reach your destiny.

21 – The brothers immediately came running to take the mantle away and prevent this donation. But the poor man, taking courage from the father’s look, clutched it with both hands and defended it as his own. In the end the brothers had to redeem the mantle, and the poor man left after getting his price.

Unless there is within us that which is above us, we shall soon succumb to that which is about us.

34  HE GIVES A MANTLE TO A POOR MAN, ON THE CONDITION THAT HE PARDON HIS MASTER

22 – Once when he was at Colleb in the county of Perugia, Saint Francis met a poor man whom he had known before in the world. He asked him: “Brother, how are you doing?” The man malevolently began to heap curses on his lord, who had taken away everything he had. “Thanks to my lord, may the Almighty Lord curse him, I’m very bad off!” Blessed Francis felt more pity for the man’s soul, rooted in mortal hatred, than for his body.

All people should learn before they die what they are running from, and to, and why.

23 – He said to him: “Brother, forgive your lord for the love of God, so you may set your soul free, and it may be that he will return to you what he has taken. Otherwise you will lose not only your property but also your soul.” He replied: “I can’t entirely forgive him unless he first gives back what he took.”

People may doubt what we say, but they will believe what we do.

24 – Blessed Francis had a mantle on his back, and said to him: “Here, I’ll give you this cloak, and beg you to forgive your lord for the love of the Lord God.” The man’s mood sweetened, and, moved by this kindness, he took the gift and forgave the wrongs.

Lord, put into my heart the desire to get involved in your plan, regardless of what it may cost me.

35 – 36  HE EXPLAINS A PASSAGE FROM EZECHIEL TO A BROTHER PREACHER

25 – While he was staying in Siena, someone from the Order of Preachers happened to arrive; he was a spiritual man and a Doctor of Sacred Theology. He visited blessed Francis, and he and the holy man enjoyed a long and sweet conversation about the words of the Lord.

What most people tend to forget is that we have unbelievable control over our destiny.

26 – This teacher asked him about the words of Ezekiel: If you do not warn the wicked man about his wickedness, I will hold you responsible for his soul. I’m acquainted with many people, good father, who live in mortal sin, as I’m aware. But I don’t always warn them about their wickedness. Will I then be held responsible for their souls?”

Today’s decision is tomorrow’s reality.

27 – Blessed Francis then said that he was an unlettered man, and it would be better for him to be taught by the other rather than to answer a question about Scripture. But that humble teacher replied: “Brother, it’s true I have heard these words explained by some wise men; still, I’d be glad to hear how you understand it.”

The enemy of the best is not the worst but the good enough.

28 – So blessed Francis said to him: “If that passage is supposed to be understood in a universal sense, then I understand it to mean that a servant of God should be burning with life and holiness so brightly, that by the light of example and the tongue of his conduct, he will rebuke all the wicked. In that way, I say, the brightness of his life and the fragrance of his reputation will proclaim their wickedness to all of them.” That man went away greatly edified, and said to the companions of blessed Francis: “My brothers, the theology of this man, held aloft by purity and contemplation, is a soaring eagle, while our learning crawls on its belly on the ground”.

Life is God’s novel. Let God write it.

Peace and Blessings

Fr. Francis A. Sariego, OFM Cap

Regional Spiritual Assistant

January 2025-Fr. Francis Sariego, OFM Cap, Monthly Spiritual Reflection

St. Katherine Drexel Regional Fraternity

Regional Spiritual Assistant

St. Francis of Assisi Friary

1901 Prior Road

Wilmington, Delaware 19809

tel: (302) 798-1454      fax: (302) 798-3360      website: skdsfo     email: pppgusa@gmail.com

January 2025

 O admirable heights and sublime lowliness!

O sublime humility! O humble sublimity!

That the Lord of the universe,

God and the Son of God,

so humbles Himself

that for our salvation

He hides Himself

under the little form of bread!

Look, brothers, at the humility of God

and pour out your hearts before Him!

Humble yourselves, as well,

that you may be exalted by Him.

Therefore, hold back nothing of yourselves for yourselves

so that He Who gives Himself totally to you

may receive you totally. 

(St. Francis of Assisi)

(excerpts continue from the Assisi Compilation and daily quotes from various sources)

 

14  A FLOCK OF LARKS SING ABOVE THE HUT WHERE HE IS DYING

1 – Saturday evening before nightfall, after vespers, when blessed Francis passed to the Lord, many birds called larks flew low above the roof of the house where blessed Francis lay, wheeling in a circle and singing. We, who were with blessed Francis, and who wrote these things about him, bear witness that we often heard him say: “If I ever speak to the emperor, I will beg him, for the love of God and by my entreaties, to enact a written law forbidding anyone to catch our sister larks or do them any harm.

Time never takes time off.

2 – Likewise, all mayors of cities and lords of castles and villages should be bound to oblige people each year on the Nativity of the Lord to scatter wheat and other grain along the roads outside towns and villages, so that all the birds, but especially our sister larks, may have something to eat on such a solemn feast.

It’s magnificent to grow old if one keeps young.

3 – Also, out of reverence for the Son of God, whom His Virgin Mother on that night laid in a manger between an ox and ass, everyone should have to give brother ox and brother ass a generous portion of fodder on that night. Likewise, on the Nativity of the Lord, all the poor should be fed their fill by the rich.”

The voice of Time cries out “Advance”.

4 – For blessed Francis held the Nativity of the Lord in greater reverence than any other of the Lord’s solemnities. For although the Lord may have accomplished our salvation in his other solemnities, nevertheless, once He was born to us, as blessed Francis would say, it was certain that we would be saved. On that day he wanted every Christian to rejoice in the Lord and, for love of Him who gave Himself to us, wished everyone to be cheerfully generous not only to the poor but also to the animals and birds.

Time is too slow for those who wait.

5 – Concerning larks, blessed Francis used to say, “Our Sister Lark, has a capuche like religious, and is a humble bird, who gladly goes along the road looking for some grain. Even if she finds it in the animals’ manure, she pecks it out and eats it. While flying, she praises the Lord, like good religious who look down on earthly things, and whose life is always in heaven.

Time is too swift for those who fear.

6 – Moreover, her clothes, that is, her feathers, resemble earth, giving an example to religious not to wear clothes that are colorful and refined, but dull, like earth.” And because blessed Francis considered all these things in sister larks, he loved them very much and was glad to see them.

Tim is too long for those who grieve.

15  TAKING ALMS CAN ROB THE POOR

7 – Blessed Francis often said these words to the brothers: “I have never been a thief, that is, in regard to alms, which are the inheritance of the poor. I always took less than I needed, so that other poor people would not be cheated of their share. To act otherwise would be theft.”

Time is too short for those who rejoice.

16  THE MINISTERS AND POVERTY

8 – When the brother ministers urged him to allow the brothers to have something at least in common, so that such a great number would have some resources, Saint Francis called upon Christ in prayer and consulted Him about this. Christ immediately responded that He would take away everything held individually or in common, saying that this is His family for whom He was always ready to provide, no matter how much it might grow, and He would always cherish it as long as it would put its hope in him.

Time is short, but those who love, Time is eternity.

17   HE RESPONDS TO BROTHER ELIAS AND THE MINISTERS WHO OBJECTED TO THE RULE HE WAS WRITING AT FONTE COLOMBO

9 – When blessed Francis was on a mountain with Brother Leo of Assisi and Brother Bonizo of Bologna to make the Rule,—because the first, which he had written at Christ’s instruction, was lost — a great many ministers gathered around Brother Elias, who was the vicar of blessed Francis. “We heard that Brother Francis is making a new rule,” they told him, “and we fear that he will make it so harsh that we will not be able to observe it. We want you to go to him and tell him that we refuse to be bound to that Rule. Let him make it for himself and not for us.”

God wants the heart.

10 – Brother Elias replied to them that he did not want to go because he feared the rebuke of Brother Francis. When they insisted that he go, he said that he refused to go without them; so they all went. When Brother Elias, with those ministers, was near the place where blessed Francis was staying, he called him.

My worth to God in public is what I am in private.

11 – Blessed Francis responded and, seeing those ministers, he said: “What do these brothers want?” “These are ministers,” Brother Elias answered, “who heard that you are making a new rule. They fear that you are making it very harsh, and they say, and say publicly, that they refuse to be bound by it. Make it for yourself and not for them.”

The measure of a person’s character is what he would do if he were never found out.

12 – Then blessed Francis turned his face to heaven and spoke to Christ in this way:  “Lord! Didn’t I tell you they wouldn’t believe you?” The voice of Christ was then heard in the air, saying “Francis, nothing of yours is in the Rule: whatever is there is mine.

Power is never good unless the one who has it is good.

13 – And I want the Rule observed in this way: to the letter, to the letter, to the letter, and without a gloss, without a gloss, without a gloss.” And He added: “I know how much human weakness is capable of, and how much I want to help them. Those who refuse to observe it should leave the Order.”

A good name is better than wealth.

14 – Then blessed Francis turned to the brothers and said: “Did you hear? Did you hear? Do you want me to have you told again?” Then the ministers, confused and blaming themselves, departed.

Patient endurance attains all things.

18  HIS RESPONSE TO CARDINAL HUGOLINO AND TO THE BROTHERS ABOUT TAKING AN EXISTING MONASTIC RULE

15 – When blessed Francis was at the general chapter called the Chapter of Mats, held at Saint Mary of the Portiuncula, there were five thousand brothers present. Many wise and learned brothers told the Lord Cardinal, who later became Pope Gregory, who was present at the chapter, that he should persuade blessed Francis to follow the advice of those same wise brothers and allow himself to be guided by them for the time being.

Great works are performed not only by strength but perseverance.

16 – They cited the Rule of blessed Benedict, of blessed Augustine, and of blessed Bernard, which teach how to live in such order in such a way. Then blessed Francis, on hearing the cardinal’s advice about this, took him by the hand and led him to the brothers assembled in chapter, and spoke to the brothers…

Perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after another.

17 – God has called me by the way of simplicity and showed me the way of simplicity. I do not want you to mention to me any Rule, whether of St. Augustine, or St. Bernard, or St. Benedict. And the Lord told me what He wanted.

What can’t be cured, must be endured.

18 – He wanted me to be a new fool in the world.  God did not wish to lead us by any other way other than this knowledge. But God will confound you by your knowledge and wisdom. But I trust in the Lord’s police that through them He will punish you, and you will return to your state, to your blame, like it or not”. The Cardinal was shocked and said nothing and all the brothers were afraid.

The Word of God became man that you also may learn from a man how a man becomes a God.

19  –  HIS EXPLANATION OF THE BROTHERS’ RELATIONSHIP TO CLERICS

19 – Although blessed Francis wanted his sons to keep peace with all and to behave as little ones toward everyone, he taught them to be particularly humble toward clerics by his word and showed them by his example.

Real unselfishness consists in sharing the interests of others.

20 – He used to say: “We have been sent to help clerics for the salvation of souls so that we may make up whatever may be lacking in them. Each shall receive a reward, not on account of authority, but because of the work done.

The secret of being lovely is in being unselfish.

21 – Know then, brothers, that the profit or good of souls is what pleases God the most, and this is more easily obtained through peace with the clergy than fighting with them. If they should stand in the way of the people’s salvation, revenge is for God, and he will repay them in due time.

Living in our selfishness prevents our transformation into divine love.

22 – So, be subject to prelates so that, as much as possible on your part no jealousy arises. If you are children of peace, you will win over both clergy and people for the Lord, and the Lord will judge that more acceptable than only winning over the people, while scandalizing the clergy.

The most satisfying thing in life is to have been able to give a large part of oneself to others.

23 – Cover up their failings, make up for their many defects, and when you have done this, be even more humble.”

It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

20  HIS REFUSAL TO REQUEST PRIVILEGES FROM THE ROMAN CURIA

24 – Some of the brothers told blessed Francis: “Father, don’t you see that sometimes bishops do not permit us to preach, allowing us to remain idle in an area for many days before we can preach to the people? It would be better if you arranged for the brothers to get a privilege from the Lord Pope: it would be the salvation of souls.

The man who is poor in the spirit realizes things mean nothing and God means everything.

25 – ” He answered them with a stern rebuke, telling them: “You, Lesser Brothers, you do not know the will of God, and will not allow me to convert the whole world as God wills. For I want to convert the prelates first by humility and reverence. Then, when they see your holy life and your reverence for them, they will ask you to preach and convert the people.

He is not poor who has little, he that desires much.

26 – These will attract the people to you far better than the privileges you want, which would lead you to pride. And if you are free of all avarice, and lead the people to give the churches their due, they will ask you to hear the confessions of their people.

People seldom improve when they have no other model but themselves to copy.

27 – Although you should not be concerned about this, for if they are converted, they will easily find confessors.

If we behaved like true Christians, there would be no pagans.

28 – For my part, I want only this privilege from the Lord: not to have any privilege from any human being, except to show reverence to all, and, by the obedience of the holy Rule, to convert everyone more by example than by word”.

The hope of the future lies not in better human inventions, but in better human relations.

21  CHRIST COMPLAINS TO BROTHER LEO ABOUT THE INGRATITUDE OF THE] BROTHERS

29 – One time the Lord Jesus Christ said to Brother Leo, the companion of blessed Francis: “I have a complaint about the brothers.” “About what, Lord?” Brother Leo replied. And the Lord said: “About three things. They do not recognize My gifts which, as you know, I generously bestow on them daily, since they neither sow nor reap. All day long they are idle and complain. And they often provoke one another to anger, and do not return to love, and do not pardon the injury they receive.”

Nothing is a greater impediment to being in good terms with others than being ill at ease with yourself.

22  HE BLESSES THE BROTHERS AND SHARES BREAD WITH THEM WHEN HE WAS VERY ILL

30 – One night blessed Francis was so afflicted with the pains of his illness that he could barely rest or sleep that night. In the morning, when his pain eased a bit, he had all the brothers staying in that place called to him, and when they were seated around him, he considered them and regarded them as representatives of all the brothers.

God did not make human beings perfect.  He made human beings pilgrims after perfection.

31 – Beginning with one brother, he blessed them, placing his right hand on the head of each one, and he blessed all who were in the religion and all who were to come until the end of the world. He seemed to feel sorry for himself because he was not able to see his sons and brothers before his death.

Ideals are like stars-we never reach them but we chart our course by them.